Am I gay? Or was I just raped? Or am I just plain out nuts?

Because there was jizz and blood in my underpants. And a lot of other reasons I know that I had sex. It's just I don't really know why. I keep looking up different drugs buut none really make any sense. Like the liquid one tastes funny. And I know my drink didn't taste differently. And I didn't leave my drink either. So I don't get how did anyone spike my drink while I was right there.

Because there was jizz and blood in my underpants. And a lot of other reasons I know that I had sex. It's just I don't really know why. I keep looking up different drugs buut none really make any sense. Like the liquid one tastes funny. And I know my drink didn't taste differently. And I didn't leave my drink either. So I don't get how did anyone spike my drink while I was right there.

Get tested if you thnk you had gay sex with a stranger

Because there was jizz and blood in my underpants. And a lot of other reasons I know that I had sex. It's just I don't really know why. I keep looking up different drugs buut none really make any sense. Like the liquid one tastes funny. And I know my drink didn't taste differently. And I didn't leave my drink either. So I don't get how did anyone spike my drink while I was right there.

A difficult conversation with your parents and a phonecall to the police. ASAP and they may be able to detect what you were drugged with via bloods.

Because there was jizz and blood in my underpants. And a lot of other reasons I know that I had sex. It's just I don't really know why. I keep looking up different drugs buut none really make any sense. Like the liquid one tastes funny. And I know my drink didn't taste differently. And I didn't leave my drink either. So I don't get how did anyone spike my drink while I was right there.

I think your ******** would've hurt if you woke up and he had anal sex? But he could've had oral sex with you? Just get tested. It's a shame you couldn't catch him :\ make sure you're careful next time and don't stress over this too much. Try and forget about it after getting tested!


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Your friends found you near the toilets with open flies, after how long of absence?

You were 'wasted' having been drinking lemonade and Sprite.

Do you have any injuries? You say that you think that you had sex. Are you saying that you physically feel like someone has had sexual intercourse with you?

Do not answer any of the above here if it makes you feel in any way uncomfortable. I think you may need to be having a conversation with the police though.

Tell your parents! If you know him then tell your parents to do something about it! Im sure they'd understand that you didn't want to get high etc and that you were drugged


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Yeah I need to find a way to actually do it without parents knowing going to have to do some research I guess.





A while they weren't paying attention. I'm not a kid. They didn't have to watch me every step.





I don't want my parents to become a problem. My family's pretty perfect now. I don't want to ruin that. I want to pretend. I just am concerned for my own health. Wait I have an idea I think.

Lemonade with Sprite? They are practically the same thing, why would you mix them together?

oh wow okay, I'm 16 so so so okay

definitely ask your friends again. You need details.

If I were you, I'd tell my parents, because of how young you are (as am I) in relation to the potential seriousness of this.

If you want to ask the guy, do it. It may seem random but you yourself haven't (from what I have read) done anything wrong and it's perfectly reasonable for you to want to know what happened, especially since you said you had spent time with this 'acquaintance' of yours.

I think your drink was spiked, actually it most definitely was.

Sprite and lemonade shouldn't make you fade out like that.

Keeping in mind you don't sound like you were in any state to consent, so if anything happened it was most likely a rape

And no I don't think you're gay, or mad. You clearly just blurred out and can't remember details, try and figure them out. Ask someone is possible.

What makes you think anything "sexual" happened, do you feel sore in anyway? and do you remember the guy you were talking to before hand?

I like that both give edge imo. Sprite is kind of salty and bitey and lemonade is bitterish.




I have seen him a few times we've never been friends though. I don't really want to see him again. But I'm gunna see him everyday so I guess I better ask. Why not? It can't really hurt.




My only issue is how does someone spike a drink when I was there the whole time.

Where were you when this happened? I had assumed a bar of some sort but rereading your OP, it doesn't say. As you're 15 and underage, why would your friends think you were drinking? Was there alcohol on hand wherever you were? (Just clarifying so I can understand the situation a bit more)

Did you know this guy/would you be able to find him again? I'd personally get a friend to find him and casually ask him about what happened between you that night, not in an accusatory way, but just to see what he says (he may claim you consented to sexual activity so at least you'd know something DID happen). Also, get tested either way just in case.

Well first you need to decide whether or not you're up for reporting this. Secondly you're going to want to get tested and get some advice.

I don't want to talk to police. As that will make everyone know what happened. Nothing's confidential. So I basically make hell for myself even more. I want to go to the hospital but I don't want a report. What if it's consetual can't they still give me the pill without making a big deal about it?

I was at a party. I have a friend that had friends that were having a party that involved a lot of different substances. I was planning on drinking nothing else. But I never ended up drinking. Maybe he assumed I was getting drunk he made it faster?

I see him everyday at school but we take different classes.IF I get them to ask him won't they have to know that something happened? And what if he tells them that we did have sex. They can't know that I had sex with him. Ever. I'd rather just say nothing. Like that would be basically hell.

Rohypnol. Completely tasteless. Effects, exactly like you've described.

Also, if you've still got the jizz or at least the underpants if they haven't been washed, hand them in for evidence and there's a nice little bit of DNA evidence.

I would advise visiting your GP for medical advice and treatment. Your parents will not to have to know

I don't get it, how would your parents find out if you don't tell them?

And sorry for what happened to you if you're straight.

Is this guy the same age as you then? I can understand not wanting your friends to find out.. Do you feel okay speaking to this guy again? Like are you scared etc or not really bothered? I'm not really sure what to suggest. How are you feeling about it all, mentally? Do you feel like it's affected you in a huge way emotionally/mentally or are you okay with It and prefer not to know what happened (if anything)?

It might be worth seeing the school counsellor about it and talking it out. I can imagine you must feel quite confused.

I'm just more cautious. I'm never drinking anything outside of my house and I literally don't want to be around him. It's good we don't take the same classes and it's good I won't see him again after a few months. My issue is just how likely I have got a chance to get aids as he's gay. I just want to be physically healthy. That's basically it. I can deal with anything else.