Slut shaming

And I told you that is a piss poor example because Kim K and Kanye do not represent average people. You decided to laugh at it.
Do you understand that the probability of being from their lifestyle enables them to do certain things with exemption from the same rules that apply to regular civilians? So it's horrible to look at a media celebrity and say, "well they did it. It's possible."

No it ain't. "And if it's not possible let's make it." Why they hell would you want to? I'm not trying to insult or aggravate or offend, I really am trying to understand why you would take them as a realistic .

Okay. Fait enough.
But what about pornstars/strippers/prostitutes that find husbands then?
(No, I do not aspire to be a pornstar if that is what you are thinking)

I don't get why female singers/performers/whatever/etc are constantly slut shamed if they wear something short for example and if a guy is shirtless then he's praised for it and they don't get for it????

#I know this is random but i me and friend were talking about it the other day.#
double standards exist and it's pretty shitty.

Okay. Fait enough.
But what about pornstars/strippers/prostitutes that find husbands then?
(No, I do not aspire to be a pornstar if that is what you are thinking)

womens asses/tits are far more... how would i say, 'precious' to them than men?
it really doesnt matter if a man has his shirt off, hes not showing anything explicit

if a woman grabbed a mans chest, he would never moan or feel sexually assaulted
the same does not apply to a woman

therefore she is effectively putting on display her most private areas of her body for attention
thats why there is slut shaming

I can't say I'm too surprised that a woman such as loveleest would even mention Kim k, her mind didn't even care to filter how absurd an example Kim k is and that maybe just maybe she should not mention nor praise such a low standard of woman.

The plight of some sectors of society in looking upto such trash is so normalised in today's mainstream culture.

A slut doesn't stop being a slut because she gets married lol. I think loveleest is confused, the wedding ring doesn't mean you have become a higher caliber of person Lool. Especially in this day and age where marriage as an institution is devalued for many reasons.

This might be the dumbest comment I've heard all day. sexual harassment is sexual harassment regardless of gender.

A slut doesn't stop being a slut because she gets married lol. I think loveleest is confused, the wedding ring doesn't mean you have become a higher caliber of person Lool. Especially in this day and age where marriage as an institution is devalued for many reasons.

Basically. The ring should make you a better person considering vows but not everyone complies with that nor do they apply it to their marriages weirdly enough.

Can men be sluts too or is a word just for females?

Lol I mean if you do, whatever ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ my issue isn't being free with sex, my issue is looking up to indecent people.
But anyway I don't know of any pornstars who are married, not saying they don't exist, I just don't know about them like that so I can't say it from anything but an objective view that well it's probably someone who also works in the industry ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ or a fan and now that I come to think of it, yes it's probably someone from within the industry, like a porn director. I just don't get the cavalier mentality and burgeoning attitudes of "whatever" in society and media when it comes to proper values. Does this not bother you? It bothers me. As for strippers and prostitutes...IIIII don't know any personally to answer that lol but I'm sure anyone can, if so lucky, find "that person for them." Also people divorce and marry for the wrong reasons all the time so you can't look at, "well marriage so it's okay." Nah. I don't judge peoples' marriages because who knows what's going on privately. So I can't say,"well they're married, so good on them !"

But I know what you're getting at: they're with someone so it's okay.
The issue with indecency is not, "you'll never find someone."
The issue is, who will you find? What values do they have? Are they a good a person? Are they as good as you can get because of how you are? The issue is also, are you someone I would want to be around? Are they someone you want to be around? Live around? Work with? Work under? Work over? In the government? In the churches (if you're religious)? In the schools? It's not just the premature thought about whether you find someone. Hell anyone can find someone. Can you keep them? Do you deserve them? Do they deserve you? Are they a positive person who create and maintain a positive environment for you? I can honestly say someone who is loose probably isn't.

Can men be sluts too or is a word just for females?

Of course but the word slut by definition cannot be applied to a male and I think it's very hard for a men to even behave in such a way but of course there are men who do behave in the same way as a female slut. They still wouldn't be sluts though and that guy has to be pretty damn good looking or loaded financially.

My point is, a women is not any less of a women because she has a sex life...
If you found out that one of your female family/friends had a high sex count with men, would you perceive her different despite her being a lovely, caring, funny, intelligent human being?

There is SO much more to a women to her sexuality, and if you can't understand that then I honestly do not know what else to say.

There is more to a woman then her sexuality and if a woman wishes to be respected for these things she better not behave like a slut or at least let it be known that she behaves like one. Women play a central part in some families, I think it's wrong for you to attack people for wanting women of a high standard.

But that's really unfair isn't it?
Why is it okay for a guy to have a crazy sex life, but not a women? There is no difference at all.