how did you meet your boyfriend/ girlfriend?

searust

who initiated the relationship? what are the ups and downs of it?

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Reply 1

claireestelle

we met at a midnight showing of a marvel film :smile:

Reply 2

searust

Original post by claireestelle

we met at a midnight showing of a marvel film :smile:

oh, how sweet! who initiated it? where did it go from there? xx

Reply 3

claireestelle

Original post by searust

oh, how sweet! who initiated it? where did it go from there? xx

He sent me a friend request and asked me out for coffee and had a few more dates, he asked me out and been pretty inseparable ever since :smile:

Inb4 'we met on tsr'

In Dreamland

We met at gym. She asked me to help her with her exercise.

Reply 7

Davalla

Original post by Aappoolloo

We met at gym. She asked me to help her with her exercise.

When I was at school, our PE teacher showed us a picture of a sweaty vagina. Your post reminds me of that.

Reply 8

Aappoolloo

Her sweaty armpits & belly so close to me in that gym turned me on so much!

Reply 9

NX172

We met at a Japanese language meetup, I was looking to practice my Japanese and she was simply interested in Japan. I suppose the advantages of meeting people at a meetup is that there is already a common interest among the members, and a casual approach to getting to know people at your own pace, there is no dating pressure, just to make friends and possibly something more. Meetups generally happen weekly or monthly, so you can really go at it at your own pace instead of rushing. I initiated it as I knew we had a spark and were interested in eachother. Unfortunately, when I dropped the question (quite early on) she let me know that she already had a girlfriend, in Barcelona (Where she is from) but their relationship was already in a bad state. My friends suggested that I stop talking to her as I was upset about it. I continued to be good friends with her for 3 months, taking things slowly, supported her during difficult times (homesickness, hospital, etc). Her relationship with her ex worsened and eventually they broke up mutually (turns out her ex was seeing another girl anyway, so everyone's happy). I gave her a bit of space instead of jumping instantly and she asked me to be her bf a week later. Almost a year later we've moved together to London (from Bristol) and have our own flat. Life is going well. Ups. Got a girl of my dreams. Downs. It was difficult to get this girl. She was already with a partner and she only came here to study English for 3 months, I met her on her 2nd month didn't start talking to her properly until the 4th, by which she was already rapidly running out of money and had to go back if she couldn't get a job. I think the trick was to take everything slowly and make the best apparent decisions at the time no matter how bad it looked and everything will be ok.

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 10

Justmoll28

Original post by searust

who initiated the relationship? what are the ups and downs of it?

we met at an interview for the same course at uni and then he found me on facebook and now a year on we live together and we study together and life is brilliant

Found her on pornhub

Uni,second day.

I like how I make my life 200x harder by not having facebook

Reply 14

Reue

Original post by searust

who initiated the relationship? what are the ups and downs of it?

A rock bar in town.

Ups - Pays half the bills
Downs - Takes up all the wardrobe space

Reply 15

Shiv is Light

Funnily enough we were both born as conjoined twins and connected by my wrist :colone:

Reply 16

BlackSweetness

Relationships are overated!

Reply 17

Lovinlife2

Team forever alone :moon:

Reply 18

bumblebee342

At a club last year. We'd see each other there every couple of weeks and talk and we met up occasionally, but I wasn't interested in a relationship and as a student I was going home for summer. Met up again when I came back though and got together pretty much straight away :tongue:

Reply 19

mango peeler

bought her an umbrella during a summer monsoon; we get high precipitation june-dec. so she was dressed to swim, as we live by a beach anyway.

she wasn't carrying an umbrella so she ran for brief shelter in the shop where I was and yea