My girlfriend ignores me on purpose?

When we're not together we usually text each other but for some reason she just always seems to ignore me. Reason it bothers me so much is because I know for a fact that she ignores me on purpose. If she hasn't text back in a while I'll go on Facebook and she will be active or will have been active even though I've sent her a text message. This has been happening for ages now. I thought I'll do it to her and see if she's says anything and straight away she's on my case saying why am I ignoring her? She saw me on Facebook and she knows I was ignoring her. But whenever I ask her she always says I'll do what I want, stop checking up on me and I'll text back in my own time. Now I wouldn't mind if she was actually busy and I really don't mind if she decided that she didn't want to text me at all but she always says she wants to yet she ignores me all time. I'm getting fed up. What do I do? Btw does Facebook sometimes says your active even though your not? Because sometimes I'll have Facebook open on my apps but not close it proper and she sometimes thinks am ignoring her cos I've been on Facebook when I really haven't.

Sounds like a bitch.

Sounds like a bitch.

sounds like you both need to grow up a bit

it's really not a huge problem if either of you don't text back immediately and you both need to stop getting upset about it

Ew, why are you dating her?

Though she's not obliged to respond to your texts as soon as she sees it, someone who actually cares about you would never just ignore you all day and make you feel redundant like that. I wouldn't even treat my acquaintances like that, let alone my partner.

Agree. If you care about the person you tend to reply asap even if you're busy. Takes a couple of seconds.

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It take a couple of second to reply to one text. But if they're texting you all day it can take up a lot of your time replying asap after each text, some people aren't glued to their phones all day. Sometimes I won't even check my phone for hours at a time. It doesn't mean I don't care about the people messaging me, it means I have a life away from my phone/ social media.

Then give them a time as to when you can talk. Communicate properly. Dont waste each others time.

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I don't waste anyone's time. And I do communicate properly with people, and I'm not going to send a message to every person I care about each day an appropriate time to message me my schedule isn't static what is good one day probably won't be good the next. Any friend or partner worth sticking around to me is one who doesn't feel entitled to an immediate reply from me at all times and understands that doesn't mean I don't care.

I don't waste anyone's time. And I do communicate properly with people, and I'm not going to send a message to every person I care about each day an appropriate time to message me my schedule isn't static what is good one day probably won't be good the next. Any friend or partner worth sticking around to me is one who doesn't feel entitled to an immediate reply from me at all times and understands that doesn't mean I don't care.