Immaturity

she can speak to my dick

aka blow me

Well, isn't it just as immature to drop her like a hot pan and not speak to her ever again? It can depend entirely on the situation - I do agree. However, in most circumstances and hopefully from whatever has/could happen with her, she will eventually learn from her mistakes and mature as time goes on.

You don't have to associate yourself with her anymore (be attached), involve yourself with her, learn to detach... but it doesn't hurt to be friendly on the outskirts. You can still be acquaintances. If she's a bad influence on you and personal growth, then by all means stay away - but if it's just the case of her being immature and you not wanting to "look bad", then drift away but stay friendly and sincere. You never know, you might end up rekindling the relationship in the future. People do change.

I might talk to them, I think forgiveness is important and frankly if no one talked to me after screwing up i'm not entirely sure how many friends I would have (that sounds awful, i'm really not that bad I just count minor things as screw ups ). I don't think i'd pursue a relationship with them though.

I don't know, probably not. Its a matter of situation and in a way a gut instinct.

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Agreed wholeheartedly - relationship is out of the question, although with girl 2. She's a sort, so I wouldn't say no...

Relationship, yeah, without a doubt. But in terms of a fist date for instance, its near the knuckle.

I am sure it's because they are both students. Haha - if I told you they are from xyz you'd go stay clear lol 😅