Why is my crush's friend such a bitch?

I don't know what it is, but her friend just seems rather hostile. I said "Hi" to her once because we made eye contact and she didn't answer and frankly, it just seemed like she completely ignored me. She even cuts through me when I'm answering my crush or asking her a question.

My crush on the otherhand treats with more respect.

Why is her friend like this? Is it just her personality or is it personal?

Anyone?

Because she's just a bitch, that or she doesn't like you

Reply 3

Whos_Your_Buddha

Original post by Eternalflames

Because she's just a bitch, that or she doesn't like you

But why wouldn't she like me? I know some people might dislike me, but it's usually for a reason?

Reply 4

Eternalflames

Original post by Whos_Your_Buddha

But why wouldn't she like me? I know some people might dislike me, but it's usually for a reason?

I knew one girl in school, who I never spoke to or had common classes with yet she still hated my guts, for no reason! Some people just don't like you and they don't need a reason why, ignore them and they'll ignore you.

Reply 5

AfcFob

I can imagine she thinks of you as a threat to her friendship as she has probably guessed about your crush (ngl it's still quite harsh behaviour though).. My best thoughts but maybe she is one of them judgemental people who decides if they like someone in like one second or not (and it didn't work out for you very well)

Reply 6

Whos_Your_Buddha

Original post by Eternalflames

Well since she's my crush's mate I've got to be nice to her. Ignore her won't be good either :s-smilie:

Reply 7

Whos_Your_Buddha

Original post by AfcFob

Yeah, possibly.

What do you mean by "a threat to her friendship"? could you elaborate please :smile:

Do you think my crush knows that I'm crushing on her, seeing her friend might?

Reply 8

ellie0497

She sees you as trouble :smile:

Reply 9

Whos_Your_Buddha

Original post by ellie0497

She sees you as trouble :smile:

What kind of "trouble".

My crush has another friend who is very friendly to me...?

Reply 10

ellie0497

Original post by Whos_Your_Buddha

What kind of "trouble".

My crush has another friend who is very friendly to me...?

If you're genuinely a nice guy, she's simply just a b*tch to you or she fancies you and may be jealous.

Reply 11

novabolt

Original post by Whos_Your_Buddha

She's clearly sus out your motives, dude. Anyway, why are you focusing on the fact that your crush's friend is being hostile to you? Focus all your attention on your crush, just cut out the friend.

Reply 12

Whos_Your_Buddha

Original post by novabolt

She's clearly sus out your motives, dude. Anyway, why are you focusing on the fact that your crush's friend is being hostile to you? Focus all your attention on your crush, just cut out the friend.

I don't think I can just the friend out seeing that it might turn it all sour or something. Can you imagine if her friend starts telling my crush fibs and stuff and turns my crush on me?

Reply 13

Whos_Your_Buddha

Original post by ellie0497

If you're genuinely a nice guy, she's simply just a b*tch to you or she fancies you and may be jealous.

I don't know about a "nice guy", but I'm quite infatuated by my crush... maybe it's obvious to both of them?

Reply 14

novabolt

Original post by Whos_Your_Buddha

I don't think I can just the friend out seeing that it might turn it all sour or something. Can you imagine if her friend starts telling my crush fibs and stuff and turns my crush on me?

Then you need to be strategic with how you handle your crush's friend.

Reply 15

Eternalflames

Original post by Whos_Your_Buddha

Well since she's my crush's mate I've got to be nice to her. Ignore her won't be good either :s-smilie:

Hmmm, well. Try being nice to her but if she's still a bitch tell her that you're trying to be nice yet she's still a bitch. And maybe she'll tell you why she doesn't like you

Reply 16

Cremated_Spatula

Base people don't need reasons.

Reply 17

AfcFob

Original post by Whos_Your_Buddha

Yeah, possibly.

What do you mean by "a threat to her friendship"? could you elaborate please :smile:

Do you think my crush knows that I'm crushing on her, seeing her friend might?

On your first question... Basically she could think that you are trying to steal her friend from her or something (I have been in a similar situation myself and seen it plenty of times at my old high school)

On your second question... Possibly

Reply 18

user382

Teenagers.

Send them to Antarctica until they're 20. :tongue:

Reply 19

InadequateJusticex

Original post by Whos_Your_Buddha

I know so many people like that. What I do now is that I don't ignore them, but I don't make an effort to talk either. If they say hi, I'll say hi curtly, making it very clear I'm not interested in talking. As everyone has said, focus on your crush - if she interrupts your conversation, ignore her and keep asking the question. Sometimes you just need to show people you're not going to let them walk all over you.