My boyfriend is white and I'm a Muslim girl.

Lmao you're trying to say something is Haram when you can't even spell the word.

Right because you clearly can't analyse she's wrote it in a manner that portrays her family in a negative light she brings her sister into it even tho she hasn't done anything to her directly. Many marriages end in divorce in today's world this is just a fact. Why she would want to throw her parents respect and have nothing to do with them is beyond me. Yes you said yourself she's 18 shes an adult. People have little value to parents now what about the 18 years her parents spent looking after her giving her food shelter sleepless nights personal sacrifices they've made. And now because she's in "love" her parents are unreasonable and strict...

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It's not an English word, the two aa's is done to stress how the second syllable is pronounced in a sort of elongated way.

Lmao you're trying to say something is Haram when you can't even spell the word.

Since you apparently weren't privy to the memorandum, it may interest you to learn that "giving [...] food and shelter" is actually the baseline standard of parenthood permitted within civilised society and an automatic corollary to the not-at-all vain, egotistical or self-aggrandising act of furthering one's genetic line, much as someone who nominates themselves for a job at an egg-packing facility would, at a minimum, be expected to pack eggs. Consequently, unless you inhabit a post-World War II anachronism whereby the mere biological function of procreation itself fulfils some vital civic duty, the idea of forebears as inherently deserving of anyone's respect—let alone that of their beleaguered, mistreated offspring—is among the most profoundly wrongheaded and insidious notions to pervade social mores in our post-millennial age.

no one here is doing that



muslim men can marry christian and jewish women. how is it not inclusive? it's logical, it's difficult to raise a family when husband and wife are of completely different faiths, except the abrahamic faiths are similar so it's more likely to work. Rules in Islam are based of family compatibility when it comes to marriage.





you're saying this as if every muslim man abuses his wife, and whichever muslim man she marries will cheat on her and make her life hell. for ****s sake grow up.

It's like that Chris Rock standup


'Well I look after my kids'


'You're supposed to look after your kids '

Religion is not a race pal

That's even more illogical. The men can do it, but the women can't? Why not have both men and women can't? I don't have anything against you believing this, but I just find it illogical.

Would it be safer to say that today's Pakistani culture is a mix of both traditional Pakistani culture and Islam?

it's more unfair that it is illogical.
It's because men tend to be more dominant.
If the wife is christian or jew, she will teach her kids about the prophets that the muslim man already believes in and the husband (usually more dominant) will support and implement this.
if the women is muslim and she starts teaching the kids about a prophet the man doesn't believe in....

Why would she have an Islamic one if her boyfriend isn't Muslim..?

Is it not?

It's just, in Islam, marrying and divorcing is actually extremely easy, like buying a new car, you don't like that one any more, too many miles in the clock, take it to the local dealer and switch for a newer model.


If anything Desi culture is more kind to women because they have nice dresses and really special weddings as opposed to Islam which is brutally austere.

Islam permits a man can have up to 4 wives as long as they are treated fairly by the husband hence 'easy' to marry. There's a channel 4 documentary recently. 'The men with many wives' give it a watch.

I think you'll find that in the UK she most certainly can marry a non-Muslim.



Shouldn't have allowed herself to fall in love? Falling in love isn't something you choose to do.



I'm sick of Muslims on this thread saying this because it's a non-argument. What if you walk out on to the street today and you get hit by a car? What if you become paralysed tomorrow? What if ISIS drops a nuclear bomb on Europe next week and destroys it? There are an infinite number of excuses that one can invent, but if we all lived like that then we wouldn't do anything. The point is, you can't predict many things in life, it's just as possible that her relationship with him will work out in the end. It's also possible that if she were to marry a Muslim man that she'd be desperately unhappy with him and that that relationship wouldn't work out.



Living under your parents' roof gives them no right to dictate your beliefs and who you get into relationships with I'm afraid. She is an adult and can make those decisions herself, regardless of where she's living.

Well she can marry him but she shouldn't be calling herself a muslim as it goes against her religion marrying a non muslim and i don't see her parents being pleased unless he converts.

Well the more you spend time with a person, the more you will develop feelings for them. You can choose not to fall in love if there was some sort of boundaries set from the start. And there are plenty of fish in the sea but she can't get over him. She needs to be realistic. If he's not into her the way she's into him and her family are not buying the relationship, then there's a chance it won't work and it's a lose-lose situation.