It really dissapoints me being the sex that i am.

maybe look into seeing a doctor about gender identity confusion?

Im not confused, I know that im female i just wish i wasn't.

can you read?

I want to be a man so that i can get away with not having kids till a late age, have a fit looking body well into old age whilst still being able to attract people with my distinguished looks snd experience. I cant do this as a woman, no one thinks much of women once they reach 40 they take one look and think 'a mum' or if shes no kids they think loner/weirdo. I just think that if i was male id have so much to look forward to and a bright future but as a female who doesnt want kids i dont.

It's seems like a lot of your envy comes from the views of other people and if you rely on those, you will be unfulfilled regardless of gender, men and women have pros and cons if you feel that the issue is deeper than just plain thought then I'd recommend speaking to a counsellor

wtf is a tumblr snowflake? i dont even use tumblr... and if you wish you arent the sex you are because of what society thinks then clearly you have a problem with your gender.

I get what you are saying.

Quite simply men have it easier.

As they age their value goes up and a woman's goes down.

They can coast through life, 'grow up' at 40, have kids late and not have their life choices placed under constant scrutiny. Women, on the other hand, have to have their **** together and plan their lives properly if they want a career, kids etc.

Ageing is also easier on men. Their value is not entirely linked to how attractive they are.

I'm a guy and pretty grateful for it in some ways. I don't have much advice I'm afraid.

Maybe see a doctor and counsellor.

Try to enjoy your youth while you have it and invest a lot in friendships.

A counsellor cant correct this though, my youth was wasted ive always been a tomboy who didnt get attention. I feel all pressured to have kids before 35 and im only a few years away. I dont want kids till im over 40 and i dont want to grow up till then either. Ive always been immature compared to women my age, they have sleays been all sensible and motherly and im just like a sporty daft kid.

Decide how badly you want kids and then take the action to get there.

Waiting until your 40s is not a good idea.

Many women who leave it too late to plan ahead end up childless against their wishes.

Unfair I know. But that is life.

I cant decide if i want them though, i certainly hate the thought of being pregnant. If i want them it will be when im in my 40's as ive got goals i want to achieve plus ive still not travelled. So it looks like im not having them.

what goals do you have that will take you until youre 40?

It is about what i think society think, but my thoughts are backed up by studies/theories allsorts. Women are just thought less of as they age (besides the mother role) Older female actors, presenters are not as wanted for example, where for men age doesnt matter.