Ladies - How much did you bleed when you lost your virginity?

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Original post by fatima1998

my society is pretty bad :frown:

as soon as the couple is married they expect good news from them
and if that doesn't happen for at least 3 years max, then they start talking about it with other relatives and it goes mad

Let them talk. Your society will never change if you comply with its rules.

Reply 161

fatima1998

Original post by Josb

Let them talk. Your society will never change if you comply with its rules.

it includes my mum as well...
plus i just tried to talk to my mum the other day.... we were talking about something else and then ending up talking about this.... and my mum seems to be very restrict
one of my cousin have some issues conceiving and my mum just gave me an example of her
i has so much anger inside, i dunno why it bothers her :angry:

but i just keep my mouth shut because it's me VS everyone
and they all are conservatives and follows the religion as well

Reply 162

Imperion

Original post by Josb

Today, I discovered that you need to fist a virgin girl before penetrating her. :s-smilie:

LMAO

I didn't bleed.

ALOT
ALOT OF BLOOD
one of my ovaries popped out cause his dick went up too far. So horrific. :no:

Reply 165

Eternalflames

Original post by Josb

Today, I discovered that you need to fist a virgin girl before penetrating her. :s-smilie:

LOL!! No, I'm a virgin with no experience with guys, don't listen to that. Listen to the others on this thread who have had sex

Reply 166

Eternalflames

Original post by Anonymous

ALOT
ALOT OF BLOOD
one of my ovaries popped out cause his dick went up too far. So horrific. :no:

That is impossible

Reply 167

username155270

Original post by Cherry82

That's not how it works I'm afraid. It's not about whether or not a girl's hymen is has been torn. A virgin may not even have a hymen as in she wasn't born with one or stretched it through horse riding. In addition vise versa. Virginity isn't measured by your hymen. It's whether or not you've had sex.

Idk about all that why are some girls not born with one?

Reply 168

CCC75

Original post by Eternalflames

My mum had a C-section done and so have so many other women. Yes you can't do heavy exercise for the first two months but doctors would say when you can start exercising etc.

(Sorry EF I know you didn't raise this, but I couldnt be arsed to scroll back to thr original point). Please do not pre-plan major surgery. You may have no call to have your abdomen flesh and muscle cut. Recovery can be a b****.

Original post by Josb

Today, I discovered that you need to fist a virgin girl before penetrating her. :s-smilie:

No. No you really didn't.

Reply 169

Eternalflames

Original post by CCC75

It's cool, I was the one to bring it up with @fatima1998
And my mum had it, I mean she had no choice as it was the doctor's decision but some women do choose it.

Reply 170

Rum Ham

I didn't bleed at all but I did feel sore and stingy for a day or two afterwards. This happened for the first few times I had sex. Think it was from friction and everything down there 'stretching'

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Reply 171

Cherry82

Original post by xobeauty

Idk about all that why are some girls not born with one?

Not sure if I'm honest but it doesn't seem to be a problem for them as no problems rise from not being born with a hymen. It's odd because some females are also born with their hymen fully closed with no open space which causes problems surrounding their menstrual cycle as the blood cannot flow out. So it's there the problems rise.
I've read some tragic reports though about the sad experiences of different women. The report shared how some women who weren't born with hymen's or who already had sex in countries such as Ethiopia and India supposedly would receive surgery to make or restore a hymen. I didn't know if this was true as I have never heard of this before until I had viewed a video showing the procedure. They supposedly would do this due to the traditional/ cultural expectations surrounding purity, virginity and apparently it is a common misconception concerning bleeding being a sign of a virgin. Some even went to the extreme by using animal blood to stain their wedding, bed sheets on their honey moon or wedding night, sorry to sound TMI but I felt so upset that this was happening. It makes me angry that some have experienced this, artificially inserting a hymen also known as the hymenoplasty procedure due to the traditional/ cultural pressure surrounding a girl's virginity is wrong.

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 172

CCC75

Original post by Cherry82

I agree with your points about 'hymen restoration'. It also helps to perpetuate the myth that losing virginity should result in a scene recreation of a slasher movie.

Reply 173

Cherry82

Original post by CCC75

I agree with your points about 'hymen restoration'. It also helps to perpetuate the myth that losing virginity should result in a scene recreation of a slasher movie.

It's super sad. I feel like if more awareness was raised through proper sex education and through valid information surrounding the human body- it would help this issue immensely.

Reply 174

Anonymous #4

I bled so much I could've supplied an adult human with enough blood to live

Reply 175

fatima1998

Original post by CCC75

Original post by Eternalflames

It's cool, I was the one to bring it up with @fatima1998
And my mum had it, I mean she had no choice as it was the doctor's decision but some women do choose it.