If a girl asks a guy out on a date and he says 'no', does that mean she ugly?

How am I going to face him again, knowing that he sees me as less-than? We are friends but I'm not sure if this friendship is going to survive.

I know there's other guys but I wanted him so bad

You used "ugly" as a general term. In this instance, he may personally view you as being unattractive, but you must remember that attraction is subjective. Not everyone will view you the same.

Yes it's true there could be many reasons. I still think if I was pretty enough it would have overcome any of these reasons and he wouldn't have been able to resist the chance to go on a date with me.

What's the point in that? It won't change his mind.

hmm it sounds to me like he only sees you as a friend and nothing more...

It's up to you whether you want to keep the friendship going (although it's most likely going to end because being close to him may cause you more pain when you see him with other girls so I would just say just move on from him). You will find another guy who you will like in no time dw

Yeah exactly it's too painful. There's this really overweight girl trying to hook up with him right now and I'm krapping myself and just bracing for the pain it's going to kill my self-esteem even more. I think the only way we can be friends is if I find someone else to like/date.

You'll have a crush on another guy soon. Everybody has been rejected, it's not nice, but you'll get over it. The next time, try to be sure he's interested.

Well actually the answer I got was 'I'm not sure', which is basically a no.

I feel really unattractive now I've lost all my confidence. I'm sure most straight, single guys wouldn't turn down a simple coffee/lunch date with a girl unless they thought she was ugly. I'll never do this again

Haha, to be fair I'm also considering saying no to a female, I mean she's very pretty, but I just don't know it's the use of her terminology when she messages me that just turns me in the other direction. Sometimes it can just be the nit picky things that turn a guy away.

That is true...I hope it works out well for you and you find someone who appreciates you for you

Thanks for the encouragement I'll keep going and won't give up after one K.O.

I just want to be pretty or even average in his eyes... Is that too much to ask?

Yes, it is too much.

You have to understand that you can't have everyone. The people who show an interest in you are the ones that deserve your love, not the ones who don't, or won't see anything in you.

Sometimes you just have to accept that he/she isn't the one. It's tough and cruel, but that's how it goes. Chin up.

What's the point in that? It won't change his mind.

This has happened to me before I just think now, what the hell was I thinking he's ugly and arrogant and didn't deserve me anyway. But I like a guy who is 10x better than him anyway. Just be patient the right guy will come along who will think you're the most beautiful girl in the world.

If you send pic, ill tell you the reasons why he said what he said.

it could be based on many factors, not just your appearance

True, but I can't help but feel an pretty face could override all that. Perhaps I'm being naive.

True, but I can't help but feel an pretty face could override all that. Perhaps I'm being naive.