What is the 'nack' to getting a bf?

. . .I turn 30 in 2 wks, and I am YET to have a proper relationship. I have been on dates, had FwB situations, but all the guys I date never ever want to progress anything. I have tried online, blind dates, bars, people in the work place, friends of friends, but nothing works.

I don't dress provocatively, I believe I am a fun, bubbly, friendly person with a good personality, woman with career in progression, I'm independent, have my own property. So I don't get where I am going wrong. People tell me someone somewhere will sweep you off your feet . . they've been saying that for the past 10 years, and I am still no further forward.

So ladies I want to know what is the 'nack' to getting a bf / relationship?

Are you coming on a bit too strong? I understand that you want a relationship but that should be a goal you set when you actually meet someone you are attracted to rather than a requirement in your life. Most people when going out on dates aren't focussed on an end result, they're just having fun and meeting people, don't try to force anything as you could be moving too fast with them and the whole point of a relationship is to love and support another individual, not just the idea of being in a relationship. Maybe it would be best to get I lived in more activities outside of your comfort zone, do things you enjoy, meet people with the same interests and let things grow organically

Be attractive

Search Matthew Hussey on YouTube. He is a relationship guru pretty good advice!

Never heard of this guy . . will go check it out. Thanks

. . .I turn 30 in 2 wks, and I am YET to have a proper relationship. I have been on dates, had FwB situations, but all the guys I date never ever want to progress anything. I have tried online, blind dates, bars, people in the work place, friends of friends, but nothing works.

I don't dress provocatively, I believe I am a fun, bubbly, friendly person with a good personality, woman with career in progression, I'm independent, have my own property. So I don't get where I am going wrong. People tell me someone somewhere will sweep you off your feet . . they've been saying that for the past 10 years, and I am still no further forward.

So ladies I want to know what is the 'nack' to getting a bf / relationship?

Firstly don't call yourself "bubbly", its what overweight women call themselves if they get a bit loud after a couple of drinks

Being pretty, interesting and kind also slightly manipulative it seems.

Are you fat by any chance? Seen as you described yourself as bubbly, also most of the things you listed like owning your own house and mentioning your career is nice but is not really something that will get you a boyfriend. Women write this down on dating sites but it really means nothing to a guy looking for a lovely woman.

By bubbly, I meant upbeat, with a personality. Not dull as dishwater.

yeah it's still what rowdy obese women call themselves tho

Ok, I will refrain from using such words.

k yup that's it you can pull now

good luck

Don't sweat it, you don't need a boyfriend so you don't have to worry about trying to get one. If an opportunity comes then takes it but don't let it consume your entire life. Good luck.