Hey everyone, i'm currently in year 12 at school doing my a levels, i'm white British, and i've been very close friends with an Asian girl who's been in my form ever since year 7. We have been very very close since year 9, and we literally talk 24/7, although we never used to really meet up outside of school. I began to really like her, and in October i decided to ask her out. I know it seems like this is a little teenage crush, but its really not, i really do like her, so i decided to ask. She also felt the same, so we decided to start going out as boyfriend and girlfriend. We hid this for about a month, and then she decided to tell her mum, as it was quite difficult to hide the relationship, as she has a big family and it would be hard to stay in local places. So she told her mum, ad her mum was really happy for her, and then the dad found out, and he was extremely unimpressed, and ordered that we have to break up immediately, and 'forget about us going out'. Because of her dads opinion, this lead to the mum to also disagree with our relationship, and she was ordered to break up with me. Because we really like each other, since November we have decided to carry on, but just hiding it from them. Her parents believe we have 'broken up' but we haven't actually. But we both just find it really hard to meet and to be like any other couple, as every time we go out (when we go out, her parents are quite strict with meeting.. She also never used to meet her friends much, expect for special occasions, but now we meet about once a week, it may be obvious we're still going out). We really want fo stay together, i know we're young, we both know that, but we do actually ljke eachother so much, so we intent to stay together. We just worry what will happen again if her parents find out. Will it get to the stage where she's kicked out her house, disowned etc.. Its a really tricky situation. Hmm. Can anyone please help us with ways how we could meet without them knowing, how to overall 'hide' our relationship, and also, does anybody know the chances of her parents eventually accepting me and my culture. I do actually understand where her parents are coming from to a small extent, but i think her happiness is much more important. Also, does anyone have similar stories/situations they would like to share, and how it panned out in the end.
Thank you!
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