Boy keeps staring and it's driving me nuts

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Reply 40

Anonymous #1

Original post by stefano865

Sorry will try to stop. :teeth:

If he was hot you would be fine with it. That is the funny thing. :tongue:

A hot guy is never seen as creepy.

Because most hot guys don't behave creepy. Creepy behaviour occur when there's a bit of desperation, and that's unlikely with a very attractive guy.

So yeah a hot guy is never seen as creepy, because he's less likely to behave creepy in the first place.

Reply 41

user382

Original post by Anonymous

Just messing with you. :tongue:

Hope things work out and you can put a stop to his behaviour. :wink:

Reply 42

balanced

Original post by Anonymous

Men will always look at girls, even if they are slightly attractive, much much much more than women look at men. There is nothing wrong with this behavior.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dlZsGpWJmos

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Original post by Anonymous

Because most hot guys don't behave creepy. Creepy behaviour occur when there's a bit of desperation, and that's unlikely with a very attractive guy.So yeah a hot guy is never seen as creepy, because he's less likely to behave creepy in the first place.

His point is, if a 10/10 guy did stare at you like that, how would you react?

Reply 45

ellie0497

He sounds creepy, maybe talk to him to find out what he wants.

Reply 46

Anonymous #1

Original post by Cremated_Spatula

His point is, if a 10/10 guy did stare at you like that, how would you react?

My point is though, that's very unlikely to happen, so it's a moot point.

And if it did happen I'd probably initiate something before he had the chance to constantly stare, I'd probably make something happen after he stared just the once/ twice. So his behavior wouldn't have the chance to turn creepy :tongue:

And if he was a 10/10 and I didn't find him attractive so didn't initiate anything, then yes I will find it no less creepy.

Original post by Cremated_Spatula

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That face is actually pretty accurate!

I know what you mean about feeling pity, that's why I haven't really pulled a face or anything.

Reply 47

Anonymous #1

Original post by balanced

Men will always look at girls, even if they are slightly attractive, much much much more than women look at men. There is nothing wrong with this behavior.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dlZsGpWJmos

There is something wrong with his behavior. Maybe you need some lessons in learning what's appropriate in society!

Reply 48

Cremated_Spatula

Original post by Anonymous

And if he was a 10/10 and I didn't find him attractive so didn't initiate anything, then yes I will find it no less creepy.

:rofl:

That face is actually pretty accurate!

I know what you mean about feeling pity, that's why I haven't really pulled a face or anything.

I'd think he was an extremely attractive serial killer.

:wink:

Well, that's nice but you need to find a way to make him stahp.

Reply 49

balanced

Original post by Anonymous

There is something wrong with his behavior. Maybe you need some lessons in learning what's appropriate in society!

There is nothing wrong with looking at girls, it's biology and it means nothing.

Reply 50

Anonymous #1

Original post by balanced

There is nothing wrong with looking at girls, it's biology and it means nothing.

It's not socially appropriate. If we all used "it's biological" as the sole determinator of behaviour then we won't be the sophisticated beings humans are supposed to be, we'd be instinctive animals.

Reply 51

balanced

Original post by Anonymous

It's not socially appropriate. If we all used "it's biological" as the sole determinator of behaviour then we won't be the sophisticated beings humans are supposed to be, we'd be instinctive animals.

Nor is it socially possible. And, it is socially acceptable, just some people aren't educated enough to understand basic science.

Reply 52

blackcurrent101

Original post by mkap

give him the death stare

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that usually works :h:

Reply 53

Becca Ren

The way you've described it doesn't sound like your average crush. From the way he is acting, like following you to different train carriages and being everywhere you are sounds more like an obsession. He could well have social difficulties and perhaps struggles to convey his feelings. Maybe try and talk to him to see if this is the case. But my one piece of advice would be to perhaps let a close friend know where you are if you feel threatened ( I mean this could well be a stalker) and try to avoid ever being in a situation where you are alone with him and isolated from help. You can never be too cautious. Your safety should always come first, before feelings

Reply 54

Opeyy

Yes, you are absolutely right being stared is very uncomfortable and annoying. But you need to tell him to stop staring at you because otherwise he wouldn't stop. Or whenever he stares at you, stare at him back and frown do not look away until he does. Do not worry about being mean, because if someone is making feel uncomfortable you need to speak up and you shouldn't inconvenience yourself just to appear nice. You feel me?