Hi Guys, I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 3 months, 2 months ago and in that time I had obviously told him things about me, which I had done in secrecy as I had trusted him. But the relationship began to become very cold, one sided, and he became a very egoistic, control freak, which caused me to leave him. He blocked me on all social media accounts (which is a good thing I believe as I believe he would like to move on from me), but occasionally I find that he unblocks me and tries adding me again which I decline. I sent him an email saying that it wasn't either of our faults that we grew apart, and that we should move on, doing it mainly for my closure. But now I have a ever growing anxiety problem concerning him telling people things about me, out of spite as I know that that he is a very petty person and has already told people things about me, trying to pit our mutual friends against me. Obviously this information has gotten to me, and I whilst I was with him, he was very bitter about his previous exes so I know how bad he can be.
On reflection, I regret ever getting with him. I have learnt a very valuable lesson which is to never rush in to relationships, but he has caused be to get in to a deep depression, and I am constantly anxious about what he will say about me, in case it gets in to the wrong hands.
Could anyone offer any advice? Thanks