The guys I'm attracted to usually end up being into drugs! How do I stop this?

subconsciously you are seeking out the give-away traits...

these "bad boys" are always attractive to the ladies smh

You're addicted. You need to go cold turkey.

You're using them as a drug.

I had a boyfriend like that, it was horrible he would smoke weed and stuff and when he came back into bed I would always have to turn the other way because of his breath. He treated me like I was a Barbie. After a while, I dumped him and told myself I would never go out with someone who takes drugs full stop. And I really questioned myself about what type of guy am I into.

Perhaps I am subconsciously seeking those traits but I wish I know what they were consciously because I would run a mile before I could get roped in.

I would argue that men prefer 'bad girls' as well. 'Good girls' aren't valued at all. Being a scheming Jezebel or a manipulative tart gets you further than being sweet and wholesome. But that's for a whole other thread I guess.

He treated me like I was a Barbie.

disagree with the last part. attractive, interesting girls are what attract men

I would argue that men prefer 'bad girls' as well. 'Good girls' aren't valued at all. Being a scheming Jezebel or a manipulative tart gets you further than being sweet and wholesome. But that's for a whole other thread I guess.

You're using them as a drug.

I had a boyfriend like that, it was horrible he would smoke weed and stuff and when he came back into bed I would always have to turn the other way because of his breath. He treated me like I was a Barbie. After a while, I dumped him and told myself I would never go out with someone who takes drugs full stop. And I really questioned myself about what type of guy am I into.

He just smoked weed? I wouldn't really classify as that as taking drugs.
Bit ridiculous to dump a guy just because he smokes weed, alot of guys smoke weed, your acting as if he was a drug lord who used to abuse you.

I'm female and I don't know why this happens, but on first impression and sight they seem like sweet, well-put together guys with something decent going for them.

However after getting to know them I find that they are heavily into drugs and as a coping mechanism. I find out they are not interested in a relationship they would rather get high and have one night stands with fellow high girls they meet at raves etc.

I'm wondering why this always happens? These aren't guys I've met in clubs or bars and I don't drink or party. These are guys I've met through societies, uni, fancy dinners and work.

The last two had a really bad effect on me. I really wanted to save them from these drugs and it broke my heart to watch them in a high stupor trying to numb the pain. I just really wanted look after them and take care of them. The second to last promised me he would give up and the day after he stole money from my purse to pay for his next high after I treated him to dinner and drinks and he never spoke to me again. The latest is going through a lot of stress with work plus a bereavement and so is always getting high as a kite to cope and constantly hooking up with tramps and it's hard for me to watch and hear about as we are friends. Again I just want to take his pain away by loving him to wholeness.... I know that sounds silly. I'm a very nurturing girl, which may add to my attachment.

What is wrong with me? Why do I get attracted to these men? And why do I find it so hard to walk away?

How do I start attracting 'normal' men?