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Is cheating purely for pleasure wrong?

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Reply 60
Original post by Anonymous
variety. I don't think he is in love with his girlfriend also.


No way really?
Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes
Lol wot? XD


imo, it's like music
you may have a favourite song that you can play over and over again.
but the new released songs feel way better to listen too
Original post by Anonymous
variety. I don't think he is in love with his girlfriend also.


If not in love then why not just dump her and freely see other girls.
Original post by whorace
It actually makes sense, it doesn't but it does

No, it's too late for oxymoronic sentences. :frown::colonhash:
Original post by alkaline.
imo, it's like music
you may have a favourite song that you can play over and over again.
but the new released songs feel way better to listen too


No! His girlfriend is a personnnnn, you can't do that to people! :frown:
Original post by xobeauty
Teach eachother new things.

Love and being inlove is two different things. You wouldn't dare hurt the person you're inlove with because their pain is your pain you'd feel it. Well that's me whenever I'm in that position where I can cheat. You always think how it would affect the person you're with.
But I'm a female so I don't think with my privates. Males are totally in a different world so I'll never get it. But ok.



Life is short.

Have an affair.
Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes
No! His girlfriend is a personnnnn, you can't do that to people! :frown:


You're just a girl with a hole.....What do you know,




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Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes
No! His girlfriend is a personnnnn, you can't do that to people! :frown:


no but he was talking about how it FEELS to look at a new girls body in a sexual light.
He's said it's more exhilarating, and it is with music too, they both produce feelings that stimulate the reward pathway.

Think of it in terms of brain response, newer pleasures feel better...
with people it can be different yes, but if you're in love with someone otherwise yes it doesn't get boring that's the truth, when have the feelings from the "honeymoon stage" ever lasted (exceptions for people CRAZILY in love), they don't because the principle is the same.
Well anyway, this has been lots of fun :smile: I thank you all for participating. For those girls with bfs who are reading this then watch out because I could be him.... dun dun dunnnnnnn

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Original post by RiskingItAll
You're just a girl with a hole.....What do you know,


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Okay, boy with hexillion holes....what do you know.

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Reply 70
Original post by RiskingItAll
Well anyway, this has been lots of fun :smile: I thank you all for participating. For those girls with bfs who are reading this then watch out because I could be him.... dun dun dunnnnnnn

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As long as it's not near where I buried grandma, the pervert.
Original post by RiskingItAll
Possibly, seeing a different girl naked is alot more exhilarating than seeing my gf naked. Even if they're not as good looking.


Is your life boring. Are you always "proper" like a goody two shoes? Sounds like you're having a mid life crisis. You can be bad in other ways.
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Original post by alkaline.
no but he was talking about how it FEELS to look at a new girls body in a sexual light.
He's said it's more exhilarating, and it is with music too, they both produce feelings that stimulate the reward pathway.

Think of it in terms of brain response, newer pleasures feel better...
with people it can be different yes, but if you're in love with someone otherwise yes it doesn't get boring that's the truth, when have the feelings from the "honeymoon stage" ever lasted (exceptions for people CRAZILY in love), they don't because the principle is the same.


I know, I see where you're coming from. I just find it odd that you could find someones who you wouldn't generally find attractive....attractive. Just because your looking for something new.

Y'know?

I suppose it is a lot more complicated in terms of brain response. I get it. :smile:
Original post by stefano865
Life is short.

Have an affair.


You mean "fling" not "affair", no?

Affair indicates the woman is married doesn't it? Or have I got that wrong.

He may be into the MILF's anyway, in which case an affair may be appropriate.
Reply 74
Original post by alkaline.
imo, it's like music
you may have a favourite song that you can play over and over again.
but the new released songs feel way better to listen too


Do they?
I always enjoy listening to a song I know well more..one can get sick of it at some point, I guess, but for the most part listening to a new song doesn't feel as great. I like to know what lyrics are coming and the like..
Who knows what this says about me when considering relationships lol
Original post by frankieboy
You mean "fling" not "affair", no?

Affair indicates the woman is married doesn't it? Or have I got that wrong.

He may be into the MILF's anyway, in which case an affair may be appropriate.



Reply 76
Original post by frankieboy
You mean "fling" not "affair", no?

Affair indicates the woman is married doesn't it? Or have I got that wrong.

He may be into the MILF's anyway, in which case an affair may be appropriate.


Marry the fling and invite your girlfriend to the wedding :lol:
Original post by 1 8 13 20 42
Do they?
I always enjoy listening to a song I know well more..one can get sick of it at some point, I guess, but for the most part listening to a new song doesn't feel as great. I like to know what lyrics are coming and the like..
Who knows what this says about me when considering relationships lol


Classics are classics for a reason I suppose. :h:
Original post by frankieboy
You mean "fling" not "affair", no?

Affair indicates the woman is married doesn't it? Or have I got that wrong.

He may be into the MILF's anyway, in which case an affair may be appropriate.



You're right.

I was just messing about.
Reply 79
Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes
Classics are classics for a reason I suppose. :h:


Honey you know how you always said you'd rather be Jane Austen than Tracey Emin? Now you kind of are

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