Seems like I have hit a wall in my life.
To be brief, I have been seeing another woman for sex, this other woman is also in a relationship. We are both relationship cheats.
After the third time we slept together, I realised I was developing feelings for her. We never hugged, we never cuddled or anything like that, it was just about the sex. The first time we had sex she kissed me quiet passionately but after that she grew more and more distant. I really hated that. I felt like she only wanted me as a short holiday from her boyfriend. I think she liked the attention, the money I spent on her, but she didn't want me emotionally. The sex was amazing, but I felt like that was the only time when she showed any sign of actually wanting me. It is like the time I went to kiss her during sex and she chose to look in the mirror instead. I thought she would feel the same way I did but she didn't. She doesn't want to see me anymore and whenever I looked away she has that hateful look in her eye. I know lads would say I should be pleased I was having sex with a beautiful woman, but it was a ****ed up situation. It is like she hated me but enjoyed the sex. She is settling down long term with her boyfriend with the whole house and kids thing.
I felt a lot of guilt for cheating and I ended my relationship. I told my girlfriend the truth, I told her how unhappy I was, how tired I was of pretending that things were normal and that it was not her fault, it was mine. That was very tough, I had been with her for 7 years since university.
I know I am a disgusting cheat to many, but I think me and my girlfriend just grew apart after a long time together. I told her that I understood that she hated me and never wanted to see me again. I told her I will always be there for her because I care about her still. It is just that romantically we were finished a long time ago.
I am going away for a bit on holiday, and I feel very lost. I just don't know how the **** to process this all.