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How bad is it to lie to your partner about your virginity?

Basically I lost my v card to a hooker a few years ago and never wanna tell anyone.

Most guys said just make up a story when their partner asks or something, but something seems up.

Say if a future partner asks, would it be better to just refuse to tell or tell a lie?

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Reply 1

Tinemither

That moment when you don't admit to one person, but instead admit the entirety of TSR.

Reply 2

Anonymous #2

I am a dude, who is still a virgin. whilst I would be irate if a girl I was hooking up with had slept with someone in general, if they were exclusive to me and willing to go with the flow, id be game. also id prefer someone to tell me if they sleot with a pro lol (reduce risk of stds and whatnot)

Reply 3

whorace

I don't stick around long enough for them to ask this.

Reply 4

spv

If it's a really big deal to them, then it's really bad, because you know how they would feel about it, and you still lied on top of that.

Reply 5

donutellme

It's bad to lie about yourself in any way.

If you're going into a relationship, then what's the point about pretending to be someone you're not?

Reply 6

whorace

My advice is to bring a parachute. Once she starts asking personal questions jump out of the window.

Reply 7

donutellme

Original post by whorace

My advice is to bring a parachute. Once she starts asking personal questions jump out of the window.

Relationships are kind of personal

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

Original post by donutellme

Relationships are kind of personal

I know,

Either I refuse to tell her or I just wont say the name of the hooker.

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

Original post by donutellme

Relationships are kind of personal

Or even say she was a hooker.

Tell the truth

Original post by whorace

My advice is to bring a parachute. Once she starts asking personal questions jump out of the window.

what if they are on the ground floor?

Reply 12

donutellme

Original post by Anonymous

I know,

Either I refuse to tell her or I just wont say the name of the hooker.

Hey man. It's up to you.

But personally, honesty and transparency are really important to me. If I was asked, I'd say I'm not a virgin. If she asked who, I'd say I was an idiot and it was a hooker.

If she leaves, then that's fine. Because she doesn't want someone like me. Understandable. If she doesn't, then she's okay with it, and she likes me for me.

Reply 13

urbanlocations

You say... 'I was very stupid I got very drunk and lost it..' something on the lines of that.... not a hooker may sound a little scruffy.

Or just lie! :smile:

Reply 14

lizardlenny

What's the number one rule of any relationship?

Reply 15

TheonlyMrsHolmes

To be completely honest a part of me wouldn't want to know.

But if you feel okay keeping it a secret then it's up to you, but it's much better to share something like that at the beginning of your relationship than later on, because if you suddenly decide you don't want to keep that a secret any longer and do share it, I would assume it would cause some trust issues. :/

Reply 16

whorace

Original post by lizardlenny

What's the number one rule of any relationship?

Make yourself look better than them so they keep interest.

Reply 17

Anonymous #1

Original post by donutellme

Guess that is true, if somebodies gonna leave over something like that, they aren't worth keeping at all.

Reply 18

Anonymous #1

Original post by urbanlocations

You say... 'I was very stupid I got very drunk and lost it..' something on the lines of that.... not a hooker may sound a little scruffy.

Or just lie! :smile:

May go with this depending on later comments.