Girl told me she's slept with 15 people

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Right?! I'd be scare to kiss someone like that, I really sound like I'm in my high horse but it's not that.

And yes that's what I meant.

It's probably quite an immature and idealistic viewpoint but I must admit it does make the whole experience of intimacy and romance seem a hell of a lot less special if my woman has done it before with 70 other guys lol. It does kill the mood even though in any such mood one should not be thinking about such things really...

And yeah. Witnessing self delusion always hurts.

Reply 41

whorace

Original post by TorpidPhil

I don't see 'sex' as special really, almost every girl has had a relationship and whether they have had sex or not those others area of intimacy have also been shared with others. Sex is cheap, those closer feelings are much rarer.

Reply 42

username402722

This thread is not sponsored by the Dundee tourist board, especially the first page.

Reply 43

VladThe1mpaler

Original post by 4Skin

I myself prior to university was a member of teh underclass, and come from a family of thieves and such. My sister's friends seemed to have had a bunch of teen sex, then endless boyfriends, one night stands and holiday bangs. A girl I know has had eight abortions. I remember two girls in their early twenties saying they had been with around 70 and that was years ago. Everywhere I turn is a cauldron of slootiness. Friends, friends or friends, friends of friends of friends. I am surrounded by STDs.

Being now aged 30 most women are dried up and have been used like a homeless man's teabag. That chances of getting a women who's slept with under 5 guys is probably minus 9000, unless she's really rubbish in which case I wouldn't want her anyway.

That's Dundee for ya!

I'm allowed to make fun of it because I lived there for the first 19 years of my life.

Reply 44

ralf1993

As long as she doesn't sleep with 15 people while shes with you what's the problem? everyone does stupid things when they're young

Reply 45

username2412509

Original post by ralf1993

As long as she doesn't sleep with 15 people while shes with you what's the problem? everyone does stupid things when they're young

So now having sex is stupid?

Reply 46

Andy98

Original post by 122025278

If a girl told you she's slept with 15 people and that most of them had been jerks, but some of them had been really good in bed, especially the jerks, would it put you off or would you appreciate the frankness?

Said girl slept with 5 men last year, most of them off the internet after a "date" or two. Also, it was only last year that she moved from her parents, who don't allow guys to stay, in the years she's actually lived away from them, the rate appears to have been much higher which makes me think it would be higher than 15 otherwise. She's early 20's.

Is it just me who wouldn't be interested in that or is it the norm now?

I honestly wouldn't care

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Reply 47

scrotgrot

Original post by xobeauty

That's tragic.

It's a hygiene thing and tbh cant stand the thought of other girls. And it's so much sexier when a guy has morals.. " you're sexy but I cant" well gosh :colondollar:

Why is sex unhygienic?
Why is sex immoral?

Reply 48

oShahpo

I would turn her down on the mere basis of her having the time to do that to be honest. She probably isn't interesting. If that's not the case, however, I don't see a problem.

Reply 49

Andy98

Original post by scrotgrot

Why is sex unhygienic?
Why is sex immoral?

The second one: religion

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Reply 50

TorpidPhil

Original post by whorace

I recognise that and that's why I described the succumbing to such a sensation as idealistic and immature. Yet, being as emotional as I am with this stuff I can't help but succumb to it in spite of the fact that I usually try to be as "rationally objective" as I can. I know I do it. I never seek out older women mostly for the fear that they will be far more experienced than me in this regard. It's one of the biggest contributory factors into why I don't do that even though I am quite mature for my age.

Reply 51

Dnkz7

Unless you are a f***boy then nah, I guess not. In my opinion I wouldn't mind much, but if she were concerned about me sleeping with 5 girls and she slept with twice as much then that's when problems come to play. At the end of the day be yourself bruh, if she is a nice girl and fulfills your needs then why not? You insecure about something?

Reply 52

scrotgrot

Original post by Andy98

The second one: religion

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Morality is not about following moral codes without question. Fornication is discouraged in religions because it naturally results in babies without a father legally bound to provide for them, so the cost falls on the community. Fornication is therefore an immoral act because it hurts society. But now we have contraception so there is no reason to worry about this.

Reply 53

username2228735

Original post by Bealzibub

Only true for white/black girls

Racist spotted.

Reply 54

smellybelly1991

i've been on and off with a guy for the past two years who's racked his number up to above 70..and i hate it! it doesn't paint a very good picture of you if you sleep around, in my opinion..and when people say its not a one night stand because they went on a 'date', its all lies!

Reply 55

loveleest

Original post by Bealzibub

Only true for white/black girls

False.False.False.
I know some promiscuous Asians.

Reply 56

LiquidGold

Tbh 15 would bother me on a personal level (i dont think there is anything wrong with it objectively), but I'd get over it if i liked them enough

Reply 57

Dr Pesto

Original post by xobeauty

I wouldn't touch a guy whose had over three, so totally feel ya.

Is you're count low? It better be or else you have no reason to be picky.

Lol.

Reply 58

LVRG

Unless that number is waay more than the number of people that you personally have slept with then I don't see why it's a problem. Maybe she can teach you a thing or two eh?