Don't be sorry, its great that you're asking for help
We have two equations in front of us which are;
(1);25=3u+29a(2);35=4u+8aI will multiply (1) by 2 as its never nice to work with fractions
(1);50=6u+9a(2);35=4u+8aThis next step is very important, we have to remove a variable somehow, we have the choice to remove u or a, in this case it looks easier to remove u so heres what were going to do;
multiply (1) by 2 and multiply (2) by 3 (you'll see why soon). (1) and (2) then become;
(1);100=12u+18a(2);105=12u+24aNotice we've got the coefficient of u the same. So lets do
(2)−(1) (you can do (1)-(2) if you wish but it makes everything minus which is boke)
(2)−(1);105−100=12u−12u+24a−18a(2)−(1);5=6a⟹a=65We now have a value of a, so now all thats left to do is find the value of u, so well go back to (1) and (2) and choose one to sub our value of a into (again choose whichever looks easiest.)
Let's choose
(1);50=6u+9a so subbing in our value for a we get;
(1);50=6u+9(65)⟹u=1285This part is optional; sub your values for u and a into (2) to check if it works
(2);35=4(1285)+8(65) which is correct, so were done
Edit: holy mother of god i spent about 30mins on this...
my latex is so slow
Edit II: sorry for full solution btw but i felt OP would benefit more from seeing a worked example rather than small hints, but maybe that's not my decision to make
Edit III; T.I.L. \boxed