Hi all, I'd just like to point out that this is my first time posting here and chances are it's gonna be pretty long, rambly, and generally all over the place so bare with me ;P
I just turned 18 a couple weeks ago and am in my second year of 6th form. Last year I was studying art, psychology and textiles. I was very unhappy last year (and still am) and become stressed incredibly easily. Last year I had a lot of issues with my art teacher which made things worse, and since then I have lost all interest in art, despite it being something I've loved for as long as I can remember. It also took up a lot of my time last year and affected my other studies. I generally did very well in psychology last year during lessons but completely flunked the exam and am retaking it this year and right now things are looking to go the same way (I'm doing well in lessons but I don't handle exams well).
At the start of this year I was retaking psychology, continuing textiles and I picked up sociology and media studies. I was becoming very stressed and unhappy very quickly due to the workload, lack of motivation as well as issues at home which I'd rather not discuss. Around the same time my granddad who I was very close to passed away very suddenly, which made everything much worse and I ended up missing more school, which led to me dropping media studies.
Things aren't a lot better right now. I have no motivation for any of my subjects and still feel very stressed and unhappy, and don't know what to do next. My coursework for textiles has been to make a dress which I ended up very behind in for various reasons, and I hate the result anyway, and it just feels like a waste of time and money. Psychology is going okay seeing as I know must of the stuff from last year and my teacher is very nice, but I feel like I'm barely learning anything from sociology.
I don't really know what to do, I really don't want to carry on at 6th form but I have no idea what I would do instead or in the future, as anything I think I would want to pursue just seems too impossible, and makes me feel even worse (for those wondering I've considered psychology, but seeing how school has gone I don't think I would be able to handle university. I wouldn't mind working with animals either, but don't really know how I would pursue that. I also love music, but this seems like the most impossible idea, even though I think it is the one I would want to pursue the most. I don't play any instruments, but I want to start taking singing and guitar lessons, and eventually other instruments too, but money is an issue so I can't afford any of that right now).
If anyone has any suggestions or wants to share a similar experience, I'd love to hear it. It's got to the point where I just don't want to do anything, and rarely feel very happy. It's starting to affect my attendance again too, as more and more often I just feel to exhausted and overwhelmed to go into school, and know that even if I did go in chances are I'd end up going to see the counsellor or talking to my tutor and missing the lessons anyway.
I don't really know what happened, up until year 10 I was doing very well in school, and even though I didn't particularly enjoy school I definitely didn't hate it like I do now. I think around about year 11 was when I started becoming much unhappier, but still managed to somehow do well that year, but since then it feels like everything has just gone downhill.
But like I said any advice is welcome so post away