Why are bad boys SO attractive?

I find this to be the exact opposite:

All of the popular kids at my school were kids who could play instruments, sing, were pretty much always better looking and were like doing A levels.

Most of the 'unpopular' kids were the like uncool ones who look like they were dragged backwards through a hedge on the way to school, liked to make jokes about Nazis or shootings, like to say "420 blaze it" and posted "gaming memes".

Like at my school we had a girl who was like head girl, got into medicine and she was pretty well known/popular and she was dating this guy who was like a straight A/A* student, one of the best rugby players etc. etc.

I was personally average I guess, I got on with most people and you could see it made sense. Obviously it doesn't apply to everyone but nearly all the time, the kids who were made fun of at my school were the ones with the lowest grades and prospects.

In popular culture, films etc. How is high school portrayed usually? You know, the nerds get bullied and made fun of and the bullies are the ones with the lowest grades and prospects. That's what my point is revealed around.

But you're still right, because it depends on what type of school we're talking about I guess.
I think my point is somewhat still proven when you say " the 'unpopular' kids were the like uncool ones who look like they were dragged backwards through a hedge on the way to school, liked to make jokes about Nazis or shootings, like to say "420 blaze it" and posted "gaming memes"." because comparing them to the A/A* kids " who could play instruments, sing, were pretty much always better looking and were like doing A levels. " who do you think are the 'bad boys' or what group of kids will class themselves as the 'bad boys' ? Definitely not the A/A* student who the head girl is attracted to. But more likely to be the ones shouting " 420 blaze it" LOL. that's funny btw.

I think we can also agree that the 420 bazeits will most likely be and remain the 'losers' just as they were in your school, in their 20s, the singers and straight A grade models will be and remain the popular of the two groups.

Again, just as most things in human life there are exceptions to the rule. People have the great ability to do what they put their mind to in life.

I don't know. I don't find them attractive, if someone plays games or doesn't treat me or other people well then it's an immediate turn off.

Lol. You guys are young kids, that's why.

Btw, what happened to the good guys. "The gentlemen" Most of you when you reach probably 21/22 my age you'll start being attracted a guy who looks as if he has his life together or will have his life together because you'll be thinking of the future.
The "badboys" that are fun when you're a child aren't cool at all- they're the losers in your 20s.

This is what I've learnt now in my experience.

BTW have you ever heard of the saying "the popular/cool kids in school almost always turn out to be unpopular/losers in adulthood"
It's true. I'm 22 now and have/ am seeing it with my own eyes.

University will be the transition that you will see yourself going from teen to adulthood, I guess that's why university is a life experience about personal development and not just about studying books.

Who are you to tell her what she finds attractive? There are many women out there that don't find so called "bad boys" attractive... Shock, horror.

I'm guessing you're a regular visitor of the redpill forum on Reddit, amirite?

lol you are very wrong, a lot of university girls are still naive, and secondly, a lot of the "bad boys" are actually quite driven and ambitious, just break girls hearts in the off time they have from sports/working.

I don't understand. I feel like I'm in the minority whereby you get the genuine boys who act like gentlemen around people and have their priorities straight, which I consider myself to be in, then you get the boys who really don't care what people think and just appear to be bad and act overly confident and think they run the place. I don't understand why girls go for guys like that at all. If that's their preference, so be it. Apologies if I've offended anyone.

idk they just are

People find confidence attractive