Right. My mum is a cow

First off I know everyone has their own issues to deal with but I've no idea wtf to do with mine or who to turn to because

1-my mum disowned me in Oct 2013 and I officially moved out in March 2014

2-Idk where my dad is, I haven't seen him since I was 12 and his family are c*nts

3-My mother's family are too far away and even if they were nearer, they're HER family, HER brothers, HER sisters, HER aunts, uncles whatever. They know/care about her more obviously. Plus she's told them things/lies about me over the years to justify the wrongs she's done to me that they've learned about (ie: asking them to take me from her some years ago and just going to them about other sh*t)

4-my real life mates for some reason look up to me so I don't want them to see me like this lol

5-my girl broke up with me a couple wks ago because I subconsciously took my anger out on her since I suppress sh*t all the time

so I turn to you

But here's the situation, long story short, brace yourself:

The fan was literally on tho lol
and I said, insisted, it's the fan! -___-

but whyyyy zuluk. Why do people assume the worst? She's my ****ing mum

Yea...the only reason I speak to her is for my little sister

Really sorry about this. Not all Mums are loving and deserve respect. Maybe try sitting down with your Mum and see if you can work things out.

That's why it hurts the most. Because she is your mum, which is why she can get away with most things too.

Look out for your sister and hopefully she'll change her ways.

PM if you wana rant about anything ☺️

Going back to your mum will only stress you out further since she doesn't sound like she is reasonable.
Just cut her out completely.
I know you feel like abandoned right now, but you have our support xxx

I'm so sorry about what's happening. My mum is always having a go at me for petty things, and it really does frustrate me because the issues are so petty, e.g. not hanging up my jacket and I have extremely bad temper. I don't let things go lightly, hence I'm always having arguments with my mum. My sisters actually make it worse because they tell me to shut up even though they don't know what's going on (like really?). I'm also sorry to hear about what your dad did. Have you not been in contact with him since?

Did your mum find the twenty pound note?

Also, I think you should talk to your mum about it just to let everything that is going on off your chest, ygm? Or find a way to get things off your chest. Remember that PM I sent you tiiiiimmmmeeee ago? I cried once because I just cound't handle **** anymore. Imo, crying helps. Even massive hugs help, hence I think you should talk to your ex. Talk to her about what's going and let her know that you really need the support right now.

If you wanna talk more, PM me Love u loads, bhai xxxxxxxxx

Raaahz

No offence but you didn't seem like the type of guy to be in such a tough situation, judging from your posts that is.

Keep your head up, I can relate.

Things will get better just be the good son that you are and win your mother over, drop the "feeling vexed" it will only do more harm.

I would say sit down with her,when she's in a positive mood and tell her how you're feeling and see what she says

hmm thats sounds like my life. are you sure we aint related? have the same mum?

(srs) i know what its like, pm me if you want to have a double way rant of feeling down

That never works. Honestly. How much times I've tried that.

ok I was at work but I got ur pm just now hold on
and I found the damn money, like common sense it blew off
she went bat **** with the accusations and I'm sick of it
like last week something happened and she threatened to move so I wont see her or my little sister anymore

(ok what happened was basically my older sister cries like a bitch when I do the smallest thing and plays victim and it works)

so my mum thought I was like hurting her or something when I just went in the bathroom and she happened to be in there lmaoo
and she lost her ****ing mind and told our mother
so my mother said what she said and I tried to explain like
I did not know she was in there
And she said, you have to be a better person, you're not changing. You're this..you're that.
I tell her it's hard to change when people jump to ****ed up conclusions when I did nothing wrong

Ok well I try to return the money and the fan blows it off so she says I stole it? but I have to change right?

Oh ok

and ur mum and sisters doing that when you go through what you go through health wise is evil.

The only way I can win her over is by becoming a millionaire.

bit the main issue is....

Looks like it's time to buy some lotto tickets

I joke obviously, but what does she actually want you doing, what will make her proud?

Lool its fine dw. And tbh I don't really care about what my sisters and my mum do because I get distracted from whats going on health wise so I don't really think about it that much. Plus, everything is under control now (yayyy) and I'm going for my regular check up in 3 weeks

How can your mum do that!!! I can see you're quite close to your sister, and thats just mean.

I hate assumptions, my mum makes SO MANY assumptions, and it's really annoying but I get over it anyway. Did your sister not lock the bathroom door??

lmfao here's what happened
I unlocked the door
but I thought someone had just left it locked
I could've sworn I heard and saw my sister in her room
again something miniscule has turned into ****ing war

and that's good that your health is better, no one around here ever believes I am sick when I am sick

Are you trying to trigger me?