How to say 'I don't sleep with or date black guys'?

Okay so this is not intended to be racist, although it sure as hell suggests I'm racist. I have been asked by a few guys (whom are all black, what are the odds) that they'd like to either sleep with me or take me out on a date. Personally I don't feel attracted to black guys; not directly because of their skin colour but because I just generally have never been into them. I'm more into Caucasian lads.

So how do I let them down easily and say 'I'm sorry but I don't want to sleep with you' nicely?

I appreciate I will get some negative replies, but I honestly am not racist. It's similar to men saying they prefer brunettes or blondes, thats all.

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Like you typed it.

'I am not attracted to black guys' if anyone disagrees follow up with 'if you would politely go **** yourself that would be lovely, thank you xo'

Reply 3

karl pilkington

what do they actually say 'I want to sleep with you' seems kind of rude erm you don't have to mention that they are black obviously just say you are not interested.

Reply 4

TheArtofProtest

Be brutally honest:

"I'm a racist. I prefer white guys."

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Reply 5

whorace

Original post by TheArtofProtest

Be brutally honest:

"I'm a racist. I prefer white guys."

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That would just turn me on. Something kinky about your trashy racist types ygm?

Reply 6

Howard

How about

"I don't believe in race mixing as I am a committed segregationist"

LOL!

Reply 7

loveleest

No, don't mention his race, just lie and say you are a lesbian or that you have a boyfriend.

Reply 8

Complex Simplicity

Labels will usually get you into trouble so I advice against a blanket statement like. That said you like what you like. Why should you feel guilty about what you are attracted too? People should get over themselves and you should tell whoever is weird enough to say 'hey lets have sex' a polite 'no thank you' without bringing up race at all.

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Reply 9

LiquidGold

Just say you're not interested. It's not that hard.

Reply 10

QuibblerWaffle

Original post by Anonymous

Okay so this is not intended to be racist.

- Says every racist person on TSR

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

Its because I met them on tinder and now i don't know how to say i don't wanna get with them!

Reply 12

Longshot700

Wear a KKK hood, they'll get their message.

Reply 13

Anonymous #2

Similarly, if you're only into those that comes from your background, i.e. an Indian wanting to only marry another Indian.

That's still just a preference...

Reply 14

Tom78

Original post by Anonymous

Say you're "not attracted to you" rather than "not attracted to black people" or you're setting yourself up for a **** storm.

Reply 15

alexschmalex

You don't need to make it about race. You don't owe an explanation to anyone who tries to pull moves on you, if you don't wanna you don't wanna, nbd

Reply 16

troubadour.

Original post by Anonymous

Its because I met them on tinder and now i don't know how to say i don't wanna get with them!

Just say that you're not interested without commenting on race. :erm:

Reply 17

Zechs

OP you should just go fck yourself.

Reply 18

username2269391

Original post by Anonymous

Here's hows:

Guy - Hey babe, wanna go out?

You - No

Guy - Okay how bout a shag?

You - No

Guy - Why not?

You - Just Cuz... your not my type

Guy - Oh I get it, you don't like me because I'm black

You - Ahhem no! I have nothing against black people, in fact my favorite actor / musician is Sam L Jackson / Bob Marley. How could you even suggest that you pretentious bum hole!

**Then storm off in an angry manner

Reply 19

thefatone

Original post by Anonymous

You could've at least phrased the title and wording of your paragraph better. I understand what you're saying but i understand everyone has preferences but that probably wasn't the best of ways to express it xD