he can be aggressive and you may don't like it! but it depends on your tolerance level
Agreed. Its all relative. What dominance to you might mean another thing to another person.
Tis a scale.
she told me that to her dominance is controlling and i am thinking the same thing! but if she is giving the authority to control her than it maybe not a good idea
Haha all of it is fine but being disrespectful or aggressive. People forget that sex is more to do with emotional connection than having animal sex
Haha lol I laughed.
exactly - for me its an emotional thing, but nowadays, if you apply that statement to today's society only few people, would take sex as an emotional connectiong.
she told me that to her dominance is controlling and i am thinking the same thing! but if she is giving the authority to control her than it maybe not a good idea
The way I see it Fatima is that you wouldn't let some random lad do it to yeh in the first place.
You'll trust him enough. Besides the power is always in the sub's hands whether she realises it or not.
Haha all of it is fine but being disrespectful or aggressive. People forget that sex is more to do with emotional connection than having animal sex
Haha lol I laughed.
Course yeh did.
And agreed above emotions are wayyy underated. although as my woman Fatima said.. "aggressive" is relative ..besides I'm sure this dom of yours could open up your mind on that.
The way I see it Fatima is that you wouldn't let some random lad do it to yeh in the first place.
You'll trust him enough. Besides the power is always in the sub's hands whether she realises it or not.
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY NEVER EVER! and yup- he needs to clear all the tests then i'll think about it but i also won't let him control me
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY NEVER EVER! and yup- he needs to clear all the tests then i'll think about it but i also won't let him control me
exactly - for me its an emotional thing, but nowadays, if you apply that statement to today's society only few people, would take sex as an emotional connectiong.
Yes and emotional connection is important for me than anything.
And agreed above emotions are wayyy underated. although as my woman Fatima said.. "aggressive" is relative ..besides I'm sure this dom of yours could open up your mind on that.
Guys, I think you have misunderstood what I mean by dominant. I don't mean all those crazy 50 shades of grey strategies at all. That is NOT what I mean. I'm so not interested in that stuff.
lol its so hot when a guy dominated and be's rough; its the only way. occasionally i might let the guy just lie back and enjoy himself im still a virgin but i got it all planned out
You can't plan being dominated. It has to be mostly up to him.
The best you can do is go to his house (or your marital home) with a butt plug already inserted, make him post-sex food and do whatever he says, and agree with everything he says, and worship him like a God, like sucking his feet when he finishes and lies back, and kissing him endlessly.
You really have to love and look up to him to be do it genuinely.
You can't plan being dominated. It has to be mostly up to him.
The best you can do is go to his house (or your marital home) with a butt plug already inserted, make him post-sex food and do whatever he says, and agree with everything he says, and worship him like a God, like sucking his feet when he finishes and lies back, and kissing him endlessly.
You really have to love and look up to him to be do it genuinely.
lol im not a slave and i wont worship whoever you are referring to
And agreed above emotions are wayyy underated. although as my woman Fatima said.. "aggressive" is relative ..besides I'm sure this dom of yours could open up your mind on that.
Yes and emotional connection is important for me than anything.
Guys, I think you have misunderstood what I mean by dominant. I don't mean all those crazy 50 shades of grey strategies at all. That is NOT what I mean. I'm so not interested in that stuff.