Boyfriend won't wear a condom

Sex is a two way thing. What a lot of people are forgetting is that men, like women, need to consent out of their own free will. You're withholding sex in order to force him to wear a condom, you could very easily make the argument that it isn't consensual sex if he decides to wear a condom for you.
You also say it's his turn, but then claim that condoms are too much money (so it's not financially viable by the sounds of it) and he went soft while you were putting it on, which would suggest that condoms are a mood killer for him.

What I'm seeing is:
He doesn't want to have sex with a condom and you're withholding sex because he won't use a condom, which is considered sexual abuse might I add. If he doesn't want to use a condom, then he doesn't want to, and given that it isn't a financially viable option for you, it makes no sense to be complaining about it in the first place.
If it's too expensive to keep buying condoms, why does it matter if he won't wear one? You can't afford to keep buying condoms by the sound of it.

That doesn't make him a dick, and it doesn't make him selfish. It means that, much like you, he's doing what he wants with his own body.

Either accept that he won't wear a condom and use another method of birth control, or break up with him. Withholding sex because he won't wear a condom is not only abusive, but it's going end in tears when one of you goes behind the other's back in order to satisfy any sexual needs.

Your argument could very easily be flipped around on him as well saying he is being abusive to her and withholding sex unless she goes on birth control ...as notice how in her post she never says she is "withholding sex" just that they haven't had sex. And I wonder why they're not having sex....oh yeah because of pregnancy and lack of birth control.

Sex is a two way thing. What a lot of people are forgetting is that men, like women, need to consent out of their own free will. You're withholding sex in order to force him to wear a condom, you could very easily make the argument that it isn't consensual sex if he decides to wear a condom for you.
You also say it's his turn, but then claim that condoms are too much money (so it's not financially viable by the sounds of it) and he went soft while you were putting it on, which would suggest that condoms are a mood killer for him.

What I'm seeing is:
He doesn't want to have sex with a condom and you're withholding sex because he won't use a condom, which is considered sexual abuse might I add. If he doesn't want to use a condom, then he doesn't want to, and given that it isn't a financially viable option for you, it makes no sense to be complaining about it in the first place.
If it's too expensive to keep buying condoms, why does it matter if he won't wear one? You can't afford to keep buying condoms by the sound of it.

That doesn't make him a dick, and it doesn't make him selfish. It means that, much like you, he's doing what he wants with his own body.

Either accept that he won't wear a condom and use another method of birth control, or break up with him. Withholding sex because he won't wear a condom is not only abusive, but it's going end in tears when one of you goes behind the other's back in order to satisfy any sexual needs.

I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 years. For these years I have had the contraceptive implant in. In November I had it taken out as I felt like I had it in for way too long and want my body to go back to normal for a while. I tried to talk to him about my decision of getting it taken out and told him he would probably need to wear a condom when we want to have sex. He told me there was no way he would wear a condom. I'm not sure why he doesn't want to, I have a feeling it's partly because he doesn't know how to put it on but I've told him to find out how or I will put it on (I've never put a condom on either)

I tried to buy a box of condoms from our local Tesco but he shouted at me and told me there was no way he was buying them here. We had booked a week away and I decided to get some there as we wouldn't know anyone so he couldn't get embarrassed but he went in a mood with me in the shop and wouldn't talk to me properly for a good 1-2 hours and thought that £12 for 15 condoms was too much money. We tried the condom but he went soft as soon as I put it on him and he acted annoyed at me ever since. It's been over 3 months and we haven't had sex yet.

So, my problem here is why won't he wear a condom? I've been on contraception for 6 years. Is it not his turn now? I feel like I have to get the implanon again when I really don't want to.

Sexual abuse... really! ? That's a ridiculous thing to say.

I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 years. For these years I have had the contraceptive implant in. In November I had it taken out as I felt like I had it in for way too long and want my body to go back to normal for a while. I tried to talk to him about my decision of getting it taken out and told him he would probably need to wear a condom when we want to have sex. He told me there was no way he would wear a condom. I'm not sure why he doesn't want to, I have a feeling it's partly because he doesn't know how to put it on but I've told him to find out how or I will put it on (I've never put a condom on either)

I tried to buy a box of condoms from our local Tesco but he shouted at me and told me there was no way he was buying them here. We had booked a week away and I decided to get some there as we wouldn't know anyone so he couldn't get embarrassed but he went in a mood with me in the shop and wouldn't talk to me properly for a good 1-2 hours and thought that £12 for 15 condoms was too much money. We tried the condom but he went soft as soon as I put it on him and he acted annoyed at me ever since. It's been over 3 months and we haven't had sex yet.

So, my problem here is why won't he wear a condom? I've been on contraception for 6 years. Is it not his turn now? I feel like I have to get the implanon again when I really don't want to.

Call it ridiculous as much as you want...

She isn't getting her way, thus withholding sex. That is, by definition, sexual abuse. She is forcing undesired sexual behaviour on him, that is sexual abuse, or at the very least, sexual assault.

Lol, sounds like your boyfriend goes soft when he puts it on and is too embarrassed to tell you. Some people are allergic aswell. You've been together 6 YEARS, surely you guys could have an adult conversation about this? Unless you guys started dated when you were like 10....

I kind of feel him (not in the gay way), if you've been having sex for all that time and now he has to wear something that makes it less sensitive and less pleasurable he's going to need some time to adjust and he'll probably be less aroused for a while.

give him an ultimatum of condom or front door

It really can't be flipped... She never mentions, nor implies that he won't have sex with her unless she's on some sort of birth control.

And while she doesn't explicitly say she's withholding sex, I personally believe that it's being implied, given that she's complaining the he won't wear a condom and mentions that they haven't had sex for several months and then proceeds to imply that it is now his time to use some form of contraception.

The fact is, he doesn't want to do something. She has to accept it or move on.

Also, need I bring up the point about condoms not being financially viable for the OP, again (as implied in the OP), rendering this whole topic useless?

I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 years. For these years I have had the contraceptive implant in. In November I had it taken out as I felt like I had it in for way too long and want my body to go back to normal for a while. I tried to talk to him about my decision of getting it taken out and told him he would probably need to wear a condom when we want to have sex. He told me there was no way he would wear a condom. I'm not sure why he doesn't want to, I have a feeling it's partly because he doesn't know how to put it on but I've told him to find out how or I will put it on (I've never put a condom on either)

I tried to buy a box of condoms from our local Tesco but he shouted at me and told me there was no way he was buying them here. We had booked a week away and I decided to get some there as we wouldn't know anyone so he couldn't get embarrassed but he went in a mood with me in the shop and wouldn't talk to me properly for a good 1-2 hours and thought that £12 for 15 condoms was too much money. We tried the condom but he went soft as soon as I put it on him and he acted annoyed at me ever since. It's been over 3 months and we haven't had sex yet.

So, my problem here is why won't he wear a condom? I've been on contraception for 6 years. Is it not his turn now? I feel like I have to get the implanon again when I really don't want to.

You're drawing your own conclusions about the situation from thin air.

Condoms can be easily obtained for free.

I don't think either of them should have to do something they don't want with their own bodies. But I find it ridiculous that you're pinning her as the "bad guy".