Yet I can't be that selfish because I would attempt the same were I able to. But because society is sexist and tihkns men are selfish, males don't get contraceptive options of their own outside of condoms and vasectomy...
She hasn't even tried any contraceptive method before... So it's not like she even tried one and had a bad experience and it put her off.
If one method is troublesome, she can try another. I concede that it is a bother to have to go through such a process and potentially harm yourself in doing so but the harm is only short term and not extreme. Because of the way society is I have no power at all to share that burden otherwise I would. It annoys me. To point the finger at me and call me selfish for that reason though... Seems very unfair. Is it not selfish that she demands I use a condom, thereby putting all the contraceptive disadvantages on me rather than her? this is the problem of there not being equal distribution of contraception options between the genders. It hurts us both.
But what is the alternative? Less enjoyable sex for both of us? I feel like if we are going to be having regular sex we may as well do it optimally. Anyway, I'm gonna try the condom the first few times (or just once if I really can't deal with it - although I will try a variety of different condoms anyway as I realise certain condoms may be less or more stimulating for my penis type) and see how it goes from there.