Girl said she liked me then changed her mind

Girls always do this, you have to get used to it.

Just move on, and she'll either cave in and come back, or she would've got what she wanted.

But, as I said, aside from this night she never mentioned a single thing to me about her feelings, and I totally understand that this can happen. Just wondering if anyone could give me any feedback? It may be hard to go by from what i've said... my friend reckons it's because I was talking to her too much and she just lost interest/I made the game too easy etc... maybe when we slept together she didn't find it very good... I have no idea, it's just that we clearly really liked each other in the beginning so I'm unsure as how she can say there was no spark? I admit I was quite flirty in the beginning, but after she told me she didn't want anything long-distance, I sort of cooled it down a little... maybe I shouldn't have done? Thanks for any feedback

Do you reckon she was just looking for a one-night stand then? I have to admit she did seem to really want to sleep with me that night... she said 'well, you're staying here tonight, we'll see what happens'.. and then that night she was saying I was the best-looking guy ever ,my body was amazing, etc. And then from that day onwards, she totally cooled down. She has made occasionally flirty comments about my looks, and 'liked' pictures of me, but... in any case, iam deffo moving on

stop talking with her. you're making yourself too available.

human nature to want what we cant have

stop being mr nice guy

I bet if you show her no attention, even make her jealous (don't go out your way to do this, just saying) then she'd come crawling back. Then you'll see the type of girl she is. Human nature, as said in another post, is to want what you can't have. Make it clear she can't have you

Do you reckon? haha, I don't think i'm very good at doing that sadly! I'm naturally too smiley and if someone shows me a bit of kindess then that's it.. I'm no good at acting distant! :s

If she didn't feel a spark or chemistry there's nothing you could have done.
That is one thing I look for in a person whether there is a connection between us.

Whats your point/ She liked you but shes changed her mind and you are confused? move on.

That's exactly what my friend said.... it's sad that we have to play these games, but I guess it's like that :s
We clearly have loads in common, and sometimes I think that maybe I talk to her too much like I would any other friend ,and I needed to up the flirting a bit more... however, I wanted it to look like I 'got the message' about her leaving, and I wasn't trying to try anything else..

Do you reckon? haha, I don't think i'm very good at doing that sadly! I'm naturally too smiley and if someone shows me a bit of kindess then that's it.. I'm no good at acting distant! :s

I am trying to move on ,I haven't messaged her since I totally understand that this happens, my point is whether there's something glaringly obvious that I might have done that may have been off-putting? It just helps me to know for the future.

Doesnt sound like it. Seems like you are trying to decipher her behaviour as being rational or understandable. Seems like she wants to be friends when it suits her becayse its that nice thing of feeling desired, but really shes not that into you.

leave her to it and use your energy for something worthwile.

That sounds about right, yeah.... it was just that in the beginning she was going round telling people she liked me, and told me herself... and spent weeks talking to me online, flirting etc. and yeah I guess I thought she was one of the nicest girls i'd ever met, so just really fell for her..
anyway, I'm finally moving on, I'm not messaging her at all however I am seeing her out this Saturday :s people have advised me to play it totally cool., and not even speak to her unless I have to.. I'm scared I'll just end up being really friendly again..

Rge rgubf us you are letting yourself be manipulated by her. Hinestly its not going anywhere, she thought you were ok in the beginnning but shes decided there isnt enough iof a spark. Oeioke decide that about people all the time. Its not going anywhere so let it go. There will be other gilrs and ones that wont mess you about and have a genuine interest in you.