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Original post by Chant No.1
I can turn all that around for you! :u:


Do you need a drink to quench your thirst?
Original post by Tinemither
Do you need a drink to quench your thirst?


No thanks. :nah:
if it helps, neither has susan boyle
Original post by TheArtofProtest
True stat - 90% of men have not and will never have a boyfriend.


No shame in that. :naughty:
Original post by Failingstudent98
Girls school problem -_- how do you meet guys when you know none


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.....when life is too relatable. XD
Reply 25
Original post by Tinemither
As a male equivalent, I blame the social pressures on young people's appearances. It would seem that, with everyone's increasing standards (Which are now almost unattainable) people don't find love easily. Alternatively, you could socialise with more people and introduce yourself differently? Everyone's lives revolve around the 'friendzone'. I highly doubt your appearance will matter a huge deal. Most men don't seem overly concerned with appearance. Take me for example! I disregard appearance and bid everything on personality, therefore fall for kind people all too often.


What he said + not being in a relationship doesn't mean there's something wrong with you or you're "ugly". Maybe they are busy with work and life? Love doesn't always come to you so maybe you could (Like Tinemither said) approach other guys and start socialising with them and see how it goes?
Reply 26
Original post by Failingstudent98
Girls school problem -_- how do you meet guys when you know none


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You should use a summoning spell! Basically the spell goes like this "My milkshake brings all the boys to the yard" you should add cookies as well, it increases the chances that a boy appears (chocolate cookies preferably)
Original post by Anonymous
Im almost 18 and ive never had a boyfriend or had my first kiss. im not ugly im just average i guess. Im medium height and slim and i always look presentable (makeup, clothes etc) but only one boy has ever took an intrest in me and even that faded out pretty quick. Like what am i doing wrong? everyone my age and all my friends have all had relationships and i haven't. Whats wrong with me?


I honestly feel the same way - however I did have one boyfriend last year but he was horrid so I had to end it. Don't worry, I'm 19 this year and have never had my 'first kiss' either. With me though it tends to be because I am into to stuff that guys are (gaming etc) so the never really see me in that way - even though I am quite girly in that I always dress smartly and wear make up. I think they see you as being out of their league and are having to set their sights lower :smile:
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Original post by Chant No.1
I can turn all that around for you! :u:


Sorry to be off topic here - but do you like Spandau Ballet? :h:
Original post by Amellia123
Sorry to be off topic here - but do you like Spandau Ballet? :h:


:yep: Especially their song Chant No.1 (I Don't Need This Pressure On), hence the reason for my username! :h:
Original post by shawtyb
if it helps, neither has susan boyle


Im not sure if this is serious. So ill probably sound pretty stupid.
But really?
Original post by Kholmes1
Im not sure if this is serious. So ill probably sound pretty stupid.
But really?


honestly she hasnt
she declared it on national tv lol everyone knows this :/
Original post by shawtyb
honestly she hasnt
she declared it on national tv lol everyone knows this :/


I don't keep up with this stuff. I don't know anything about the Kardashians either
When did she announce this?
Original post by Kholmes1
I don't keep up with this stuff. I don't know anything about the Kardashians either
When did she announce this?


i hate that family
and years ago! at least 3
Original post by Anonymous
Im almost 18 and ive never had a boyfriend or had my first kiss. im not ugly im just average i guess. Im medium height and slim and i always look presentable (makeup, clothes etc) but only one boy has ever took an intrest in me and even that faded out pretty quick. Like what am i doing wrong? everyone my age and all my friends have all had relationships and i haven't. Whats wrong with me?


To be actively looking for a relationship or wondering why you're not in one when others are is counterproductive.

Some things just come to you when you least expect it but until then it's better to focus on improving yourself so you're the best version of yourself for when someone comes along.
Reply 35
How many guys have you asked out? Did they all say no? It's a numbers game..
Original post by Chant No.1
:yep: Especially their song Chant No.1 (I Don't Need This Pressure On), hence the reason for my username! :h:


Awesome! Just asked because I quite like Spandau Ballet and wasn't sure if your user name was taken from the song :h: Chant No.1 is a great song - also like The Freeze and To Cut a Long Story Short! :smile:
Original post by Anonymous
Im almost 18 and ive never had a boyfriend or had my first kiss. im not ugly im just average i guess. Im medium height and slim and i always look presentable (makeup, clothes etc) but only one boy has ever took an intrest in me and even that faded out pretty quick. Like what am i doing wrong? everyone my age and all my friends have all had relationships and i haven't. Whats wrong with me?


Original post by andrewden12
help
You're welcome.
Original post by Anonymous
Im almost 18 and ive never had a boyfriend or had my first kiss. im not ugly im just average i guess. Im medium height and slim and i always look presentable (makeup, clothes etc) but only one boy has ever took an intrest in me and even that faded out pretty quick. Like what am i doing wrong? everyone my age and all my friends have all had relationships and i haven't. Whats wrong with me?


3 words honey: "Get Out More!"

There's nothing wrong with you, you just need to play the field more. And a bit of patience never hurt anyone, your only 18! When your 30 you can start panicking.

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