I am currently a 1st year medical student. For my first semester I enjoyed the course however about 5 weeks ago, I had what I can only describe as a mental break down. I wanted to leave my course completely. I have been advised to finish first year which I plan to do before making a final decision.
All of a sudden I just couldn't cope. Everything became really stressful with approaching exams and deadlines and suddenly Medicine seemed so overwhelming - I cracked. This feeling had been building inside of me for a while and talking to my parents felt like a relief.
Since starting the course I have left my part time job for more free time at the weekend and very rarely see any of my school friends. I struggle to go to the gym some nights too. I feel like medicine has consumed my life - particularly when I see my other friends enjoying uni and out and about together. I am in a serious relationship and this is something that is important to me - everything I read about medicine says 'relationships won't last through med school' and once again more doubts creep into my mind.
I knew Medicine would be demanding and challenging however I don't think you know anything completely until you try it. As I get older I think about my future and currently all I can see are exams, stress and pressure.
I have found myself worrying ridiculously about things in much older years, I have shut down from people around me and my favourite part of the day has become returning home. Medicine had been my dream for so long but now I feel drained.
I still very much want to work hard and help people however I am not sure Medicine is the right pathway for me anymore. I have considered nursing and midwifery yet the thought of being 'overshadowed' by doctors has prevented me applying.
This has been an extremely difficult time for me and I know ultimately this has to be my own decision however I just wondered if anyone had any advice, or if anyone else has ever felt the same? Or if anyone could think of any other career options to consider I would be extremely grateful. Thanks