This thread is brought to you by a homosexual. =l
Well I went over a mates last night to talk with him and to give him his birthday present (was is 21st on the 14th but wasn't back in his student accommodation until yesterday) and, for whatever reason he said to come over at 8pm which seemed a little late to me but thought what the hell.
Anyway, we were talking about his current relationship and how he is now beginning to think he would prefer to be on his own/let her go because he is now seeing the point where his relationship with this girl he has known for 4 years but has been in a relationship for the last 2 months is beginning to break down.
They are having arguments on a daily basis, they were having sex on average 3 times a day but he explicitly told me if he says no to her, she has a *itch fit at him and one time, he couldn't get an erection because he just wasn't in the mood and she was having one massive fit claiming he didn't find her attractive etc...
Anyway, we were talking about whether or not he thinks he should break up with her and I said "I can't tell you that, only you know what you want". Anyway, one thing lead to another and then we started to play around for a bit (nothing sexual) and, I got literally within less than an inch of his face and took his face in my hands before I lent in and realised what I was doing and stepped back.
Anyway, I really don't want this friendship to go out of the window based on a mistake but, he's known I've been interested in him for a little over a year now and, ever since the beginning of February where I kinda told him I love him, he seems a lot more open to me now and can talk to me about anything and EVERYTHING and I mean everything.
Point is I don't want to be seen as the bad guy and I know a lot of people are going to say to stay away until/if he breaks up with her but I thought I finally had my chance and may have blown it...
He's gone home for Easter for the next couple of weeks but, well, help?