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Girls do you want more to be loved or to be considered beautiful?

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Which do you value more highly?

Clearly being loved and to be considered beautiful are top among things for girls to want to achieve/possess. Which would you rate even more highly?

Have a vote. Assume you can only choose one option. Note being loved doesn't necessarily mean being loved by your ideal mate. Also beautiful as in labelled beautiful by the community in general (not a beauty pageant or anything serious). There might be some odd people here and there who doesn't consider you to be beautiful but the majority does.

(edited 8 years ago)

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Reply 1

Dinasaurus

This seems like a no-brainer.

Reply 2

zill1

Original post by Dinasaurus

This seems like a no-brainer.

Bear in mind in might be loved by someone who you don't love back if you choose that option.

The latter.

I would rather have beauty so I can become an international model/spy and fight for the rights of humans and animals around the world undercover

In all honesty though obviously loved

Reply 5

BrokenLife

More than anything, I want to be RESPECTED!

Reply 6

Blondie987

Original post by zill1

Bear in mind in might be loved by someone who you don't love back if you choose that option.

So are you saying you can only be loved by one person?

Reply 7

Blondie987

Original post by BrokenLife

More than anything, I want to be RESPECTED!

Yes! I need to go and listen to the Aretha Franklin song now lol

Reply 8

whorace

Original post by Blondie987

I would rather have beauty so I can become an international model/spy and fight for the rights of humans and animals around the world undercover

In all honesty though obviously loved

Um you'd probably just get raped not being pessimistic or anything but a model in Syria isn't going to get very far.

Reply 9

zill1

Original post by BrokenLife

More than anything, I want to be RESPECTED!

Thats the number one want for a guy. Are you a guy?

Reply 10

whorace

Original post by zill1

Thats the number one want for a guy. Are you a guy?

She just thinks like one.

Reply 11

zill1

Original post by Blondie987

So are you saying you can only be loved by one person?

Not necessarily. But there is that possibility with that option.

Reply 12

Blondie987

Original post by zill1

Not necessarily. But there is that possibility with that option.

Then surely there's the possibility of only being found beautiful by one person?

Reply 13

BrokenLife

Original post by Blondie987

Yes! I need to go and listen to the Aretha Franklin song now lol

Lol haha

Original post by zill1

Thats the number one want for a guy. Are you a guy?

Lol that's a number one want for a woman too. :u:

No, I'm not a guy. :colonhash:

I'm a girl. :h:

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

I'm probably gonna get eaten for this but i really really badly want to be beautiful :redface:

like it actually makes me want to cry when i look at how unattractive i am :redface:

obviously i want to be loved and wanted but i'm never going to be loved by a partner if im so unattractive :lol:

Reply 15

Zargabaath

Original post by whorace

Um you'd probably just get raped not being pessimistic or anything but a model in Syria isn't going to get very far.

hahaha that's the biggest over reaction I've ever seen on TSR :rofl:

Anyway, I'm pretty sure an international model earns enough to afford security and for a spy knowing self defence is sorta obligatory for the job.

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Reply 16

BrokenLife

Original post by whorace

She just thinks like one.

Errm..excuse me, how is wanting to be respected makes you think like a man? Its a human thing. Everyone wants to be respected regardless of their gender.