I started identifying as an asexual for quite a long time now, but I'm not sure if I'm fully asexual. Sorry, this sounds odd!
It started quite early, around the primary school. You know kids, dating innocently etc. On valentines, putting card under the desk. Girls gossiping about boys and vice versa. I never found myself interested in that. Then once a boy approached on a park, hitting on me but I felt nothing again and politely declined his offer for a coffee. At that time I thought 'I'm still too young to know, maybe once I'm older?'
Then we got the puberty phase and still nothing. I had no desire to date and I didn't find anyone attractive enough for me to want to have any romantic interactions with. I'm not shy about sex, still a virgin but not due to social norms (virgin bride or religion) or waiting for that one, I just don't like the idea of sex. I had the occasions but I never felt like doing it.
Now, what makes me unsure is that despite the lack of desire to have sex I like romance, I like reading romantic novels, comics, movies, I get the fluffy feeling a little bit. I sometimes gets quite horny (so my body does secrete all fluid necessary to have sex), as in there an itch that needs to be scratched but never to the extend to actually wanting to have full sex. I do occasionally watch some porn, hentai. I'm in my late 20s so the period to be confused is mostly over so idk what it is exactly with me. I don't want any romantic relationships either BUT if I ever end up somehow, I would like a white marriage, I can do with some cuddling but nothing more. No, I was never sexually assaulted, I checked my body and it's all fine.