Don't feel positive about new relationship - can anyone give advice?

As the title says, I've been in a relationship with this girl for 2 months, and it's my first ever relationship, she's had many, so that might be partly why I am finding it difficult.

I have also suffered anxiety for a number of years, so I think she might pick up on this, and perceive me as weak, insecure and boring, all the things which guys tries not to be.

We've been on a number of dates, a few times around each other houses, and to various outdoor settings.

I am worried that I am (or she thinks) a boring person who lacks the skill to excite or stimulate enjoyment in the relationship, and that I am also not physically attractive enough for her.

I am the one who tends to initiate physical contact, and we have not slept together yet after over 10 dates, so I just feel like she's not that interested in me, and I keep having thoughts that breaking up is inevitable, and I do this to protect myself as I don't see any other outcome.

I am not sure how to even bring this up when I am with her, and the whole situation sucks

As the title says, I've been in a relationship with this girl for 2 months, and it's my first ever relationship, she's had many, so that might be partly why I am finding it difficult.

I have also suffered anxiety for a number of years, so I think she might pick up on this, and perceive me as weak, insecure and boring, all the things which guys tries not to be.

We've been on a number of dates, a few times around each other houses, and to various outdoor settings.

I am worried that I am (or she thinks) a boring person who lacks the skill to excite or stimulate enjoyment in the relationship, and that I am also not physically attractive enough for her.

I am the one who tends to initiate physical contact, and we have not slept together yet after over 10 dates, so I just feel like she's not that interested in me, and I keep having thoughts that breaking up is inevitable, and I do this to protect myself as I don't see any other outcome.

I am not sure how to even bring this up when I am with her, and the whole situation sucks

Mate if she's been on over 10 dates with you she wants you/likes you

I am going through this right now ... I understand you, my boy , all too well.

we have not slept together yet after over 10 dates, so I just feel like she's not that interested in me

My gut feeling just is that she's not very interested, and I don't wanna carry on if its always gonna be like this.

But I don't wanna sound like a whiny bastard, tell her what I feel and then she says something like 'to be honest, your not the right guy for me'.

Should I just text her less often to see if she initiates more contact, or do I just meet her and l be like 'look, I like you but my feeling is that this relationship isn't developing and I get the feeling you are disinterested' should we go our separate ways?

This is NOT something you should be worried about. I met with my ex 2 or 3 times a week for the 3-4 months or so we were together, and we never slept together. It's not something you should consider necessary for 'consummating' the relationship as such.

Just to clarify, the reason we broke up had nothing to do with that, it was just circumstance more than anything.