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How can you move on from a crush you like a lot??

Plz help. I know my behaviour has been obsessive and stalkerish but I just thought she was so sweet and lovely I really like her a lot. I think the main reason I'm struggling to move on is because I don't feel like I'm ever going to find someone I like that much again because she has every quality I could possibly look for in a a girlfriend. I honestly don't see how I could god someone I like as much as her because there is nothing I would ever change about her so wen if I got a girlfriend it's like I would be wishing it was her not them

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There's no need to move on, just get an arranged marriage with her
Oooooh you again.:toofunny:

Aren't you the one that always take a roasting from the rest of TSR?
Reply 3
Original post by Trojan Horse
There's no need to move on, just get an arranged marriage with her

How?


Original post by Kreme De Kreme
Oooooh you again.:toofunny:

Aren't you the one that always take a roasting from the rest of TSR?


I do know what you're talking about
Go out and have sex with someone else. Done.
Reply 5
Original post by Forumaddict
Plz help. I know my behaviour has been obsessive and stalkerish but I just thought she was so sweet and lovely I really like her a lot. I think the main reason I'm struggling to move on is because I don't feel like I'm ever going to find someone I like that much again because she has every quality I could possibly look for in a a girlfriend. I honestly don't see how I could god someone I like as much as her because there is nothing I would ever change about her so wen if I got a girlfriend it's like I would be wishing it was her not them


Although people try and suggest it, theres not much that you yourself can forcefully do about it. You can only rely on time and your growth as a person. As time goes on, you change, and so does your mindset. That's what allowed me to move on from my crush of 3 and a half years.
Original post by Forumaddict
How?





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Original post by Trojan Horse
I'm glad you asked. Please contact Molvi Ji

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@TSR Jessica
@Laci Green
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@TheGreatImposter
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Original post by Ablicious
Go out and have sex with someone else. Done.


If only life was so simple.:lol:
Reply 9
Original post by Kreme De Kreme
If only life was so simple.:lol:


While it's true it's not quite so simple, doing the same thing over and over again is just stupid. Avoid thoughts of her and accept she isn't interested, it's not in your power to do anything now, find someone else or get a hobby to distract you.
Original post by wallah abdi
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Original post by Forumaddict
Plz help. I know my behaviour has been obsessive and stalkerish but I just thought she was so sweet and lovely I really like her a lot. I think the main reason I'm struggling to move on is because I don't feel like I'm ever going to find someone I like that much again because she has every quality I could possibly look for in a a girlfriend. I honestly don't see how I could god someone I like as much as her because there is nothing I would ever change about her so wen if I got a girlfriend it's like I would be wishing it was her not them


You dont mention shes rejected you:s-smilie: so why not talk to her casually at first or in passing (like asking about school work, school events) and see if you have similar interests and whether there's chemistry/she has an interest in you back?

Give it a go, maybe all you need is closure, closure of her rejecting you OR actually being with her in a relationship if you start getting to know her better :wink:
Allow yourself to think about her. I find that this is the only way I can get over people (after several months), but any other things just make me like them more.
Original post by Forumaddict
Plz help. I know my behaviour has been obsessive and stalkerish but I just thought she was so sweet and lovely I really like her a lot. I think the main reason I'm struggling to move on is because I don't feel like I'm ever going to find someone I like that much again because she has every quality I could possibly look for in a a girlfriend. I honestly don't see how I could god someone I like as much as her because there is nothing I would ever change about her so wen if I got a girlfriend it's like I would be wishing it was her not them


I'm ngl I have the same issue as you but because of my friends fighting(its really big) I kinda moved on but the feelings keep coming back.

For you, I'd suggest looking for other people that meet your expectations. I know that she may seem like this *perfect person* and she maybe is but there are always more people out there, you just have to remember that.

I really hope this helps and if you have anything else to talk about, I'm here :smile:
Original post by Kreme De Kreme
If only life was so simple.:lol:


Thankfully it is, people just like to think things are complicated.
Reply 15
There's not much you can do, just cut her out of your life if it hasn't been done yet and hope time will help.
Original post by Science_Girl
Allow yourself to think about her. I find that this is the only way I can get over people (after several months), but any other things just make me like them more.

I do think about her a lot. I spend hours upon hours upon hours daydreaming about her everyday. I dream up imaginary dates we could go on and think about kissing her and sometimes I masturbate to her as we'll
1. Tracking device.
2. Duct tape.
3. . . .
4. Profit!?
Who?
Original post by NotAPaedo
1. Tracking device.
2. Duct tape.
3. . . .
4. Profit!?


I don't get it

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