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I think the girl I'm dating is sleeping with..

I think she is sleeping with someone else.

We were friends, we dated,and we kissed. However it's holidays at uni, and she usually goes home. She is staying an extra week.

I asked her out but she said she will be busy until Sunday.
I feel that she has some guy over, or she has gone somewhere.

She has been very secretive about it, and she hasn't been online, she usually is online a few times a day. She only comes on once a day now.

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Original post by Anonymous
I think she is sleeping with someone else.

We were friends, we dated,and we kissed. However it's holidays at uni, and she usually goes home. She is staying an extra week.

I asked her out but she said she will be busy until Sunday.
I feel that she has some guy over, or she has gone somewhere.

She has been very secretive about it, and she hasn't been online, she usually is online a few times a day. She only comes on once a day now.


How old is

Oh damn never mind: she's too old. Just ignore me sorry.
Reply 2
Original post by Anonymous
I think she is sleeping with someone else.

We were friends, we dated,and we kissed. However it's holidays at uni, and she usually goes home. She is staying an extra week.

I asked her out but she said she will be busy until Sunday.
I feel that she has some guy over, or she has gone somewhere.

She has been very secretive about it, and she hasn't been online, she usually is online a few times a day. She only comes on once a day now.


Maybe she has alot of work to do or she has gone off you. How long have you been together?
Reply 3
Original post by NotAPaedo
How old is

Oh damn never mind: she's too old. Just ignore me sorry.


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@defenestrated
You have no evidence, it's much more likely that she's just gone off you.

Anyway, you're only dating, she has not obligation to be exclusive with you.
Original post by zanner


hahaha
not a drug dealer

Spoiler

Reply 6
Original post by chikane
Maybe she has alot of work to do or she has gone off you. How long have you been together?


We've been friends for around 6 months, then she started dropping hints, so asked her in a date, and we kissed.

She even text me the next morning.

It's usually the guy who does this
Reply 7
Original post by defenestrated
hahaha
not a drug dealer

Spoiler



omg hi hamza
Reply 8
Original post by Anonymous
We've been friends for around 6 months, then she started dropping hints, so asked her in a date, and we kissed.

She even text me the next morning.

It's usually the guy who does this


Are you in a relationship with her or is it casual?
Reply 9
I think you might be overthinking this...
Original post by Anonymous
We've been friends for around 6 months, then she started dropping hints, so asked her in a date, and we kissed.

She even text me the next morning.

It's usually the guy who does this


That doesn't necessarily mean you're in a relationship
Original post by zanner
omg hi hamza


Excuse me I don't like it when people talk about me nearby. It gives me bad flashbacks of my time in . . . er . . . well I just don't like it. Could you not please?
Reply 12
If it aint on facebook it aint official.
Original post by chikane
Are you in a relationship with her or is it casual?


Original post by John55
I think you might be overthinking this...


Original post by Blondie987
That doesn't necessarily mean you're in a relationship


I'm not I'm a relationship, hence why I wanted to see her soon to tell her.
Original post by Anonymous
I'm not I'm a relationship, hence why I wanted to see her soon to tell her.


Maybe she sees you as a casual fling? best thing to do is to talk to her on Sunday.
Original post by chikane
Maybe she sees you as a casual fling? best thing to do is to talk to her on Sunday.


Maybe, but who would have a casual fling with a friend?
Original post by Anonymous
Maybe, but who would have a casual fling with a friend?


Friends with benefit it sounds like mate.
Original post by chikane
Friends with benefit it sounds like mate.


I would take that with hwr
Original post by Anonymous
I would take that with hwr



Really? Even though it's clear you would like a relationship with her but she sees you only as a **** buddy.
If she does view this as Fwb then she is entitled to sleep with other people.
Original post by LiquidGold
Anyway, you're only dating, she has not obligation to be exclusive with you.


Hmm true, when it comes to dating and relationships nobody really has any "obligation" to do anything.

Although I think if the girl I was dating was sleeping with someone else, although it's totally within her rights, I'd probably want to know about it so I could stop dating her.

Anyway, OP - from what you've described, I don't really see any reason to think she's sleeping with someone else, specifically. There could be any number of other explanations. Why don't you just ask her what she's been up to during the week?
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