So, im a 25 year old man. I've never had a proper girlfriend before, and im starting to worry about why, and if its holding me back that I dont know how the whole relationship thing works. I thought id add in that a) im not a virgin b) im not ugly....like im not brad pitt either. id say im 6 or 7 out of 10 if im being honest with myself, carrying a little bit round the middle too, just a belly, nothing huge!
I consider myself a nice guy (yep one of those...) and usually get ripped apart by most women. rejection used to destroy me, now it just doesnt surprise me any more. it has developed me an impressively thick skin now which im quite happy about to be honest. im not down or depressed about it, just thinking what the hell is wrong, why me? I dress alright (when i want to...), i make people laugh, i have amazing friends and family and am close to graduating with a degree and have been offered an amazing grad role.....i should be a total catch?
but i do sometimes get nervous around women. not to the point where i freeze and cant talk, to the point where i dont feel like i make the best impressions and show them who i really am. can be a bit guilty of coming on strong sometimes. not like stalker weirdo level, more like im excited i met you kind of thing! I have so many amazing friends and family and feel that sometimes it almost holds me back in a weird way, because im so happy with life most of the time.....
help please? starting to think il die alone...all i want to do is meet a girl who likes me and that i can take care of! whats wrong with me?