Being the other guy. How can this go wrong?

I'm 19 and have been with a guy who is married and she doesn't know about it but our relationship isn't anything more than the sex and I don't want it any different. Also we are both very careful people. And I generally have relationships like these only with usually I am single and the women I'm with are usually single. My question is how can this go wrong? And what to be cautious about this?

Well you've got nothing to lose but he has. If you two are careful and his wife doesn't find out then I see no harm. I slept with someone's who married before as well, just don't message them directly as their partner might see the message. Call from a payphone first to see if it is okay to talk.

what's the fact supposed to mean?

I am confused here.

Are you gay or straight?

I don't really care... I like sex with anyone I'm attracted to. Obviously not gay.

homewrecker

well they don't have a family to begin with.


And I don't want a relationship with him. So no not really.

Yes, really. Sleeping married man? It's low

If you want to be the one to tear that apart then suit yourself. Not really an advocate for cheating, discrete or otherwise

A crazy wife ****ing your whole life up, not just physically, but emotionally that includes involving your family.
A bad reputation.

she doesn't know anyone in my social circle so she won't be talking to them.

1. Always, always, always use protection.
2. If you start to catch feelings, end it. Immediately.
3. When it stops being fun, end it. Immediately.

Is easy to find out, scary easy it's 2016.