Family pressuring me to get a girlfriend

@SA-1 dis u brah ?

tell them how u feell!! I'm sure that they will understand-and anyway you're only 22, you should be having fun

You could tell them what you've told us - that your last relationship ended badly and you don't want to enter a new one until it feels right. I would hope that they'd understand.

I don't really understand why they would care a both your relationship status or sexuality as long as you were happy, tell them you'll get a girlfriend when you want one and no sooner

I don't understand it either, currently am I very happy I've got a good well paid job, I have my independence and I like going out with my mates so I don't understand why they are pressuring me.

Well then, just thank them for their concern and tell them you're happy and, if they care about you, they should feel the same

Start doing it back to them, "hey mum, you got a girlfriend yet? No? Terrible shame, I'll be sure to ask again tomorrow, maybe make some snidey remarks about your girlfriend-free status, ask if you;re gay, etc".

Maybe ask them why they're so obsessed with you having one? Hear them out then state your position, try and put their concerns to ease if you can, but state right now this is your life and you're happy.

Are all your mum's friend's kids getting girlfriends and boyfriends? running off and getting married, etc?
Maybe she's feeling some peer pressure because her friends are constantly talking about their kid's relationships or something.

Maybe your dad wants grandkids?

I dunno.

Best of luck anyway.

I have told them how I feel but they just don't seem to understand.