Why do real life relationships sound so replusive?
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Original post by toonervoustotalk
Cav i know for sure the right person will come 
One day
just not today 
One day
just not today loool maybe
just not at least for the next 18 months
Original post by dmy15
The clue is in the thread title 'real life'
Yeah, I guess we can both agree fantasy relationships are better.
Original post by whorace
No, but lots of virgins try to take some sort of moral high ground about a thing they have no experience of.
True
Being a virgin dosent make you superior to a non virgin and vise versa
I have some friends that aint virgins and like two of them are actually still attached to the person they lost their virginity to even though they broke up a few years ago
Thats a reason why i want to be a virgin till marriage (so i can be attached and head over heels over my partner
)
Original post by Anonymous
Relationships simply cause problems. You get cheated on, or the relationship simply ends.
Doesn't seem like a worthwhile exchange. I'm not bitter because I've never been in a relationship but these are my preconcieved notions on the matter.
Doesn't seem like a worthwhile exchange. I'm not bitter because I've never been in a relationship but these are my preconcieved notions on the matter.
So you prefer no labels?
Original post by CoolCavy
loool maybe
just not at least for the next 18 months
just not at least for the next 18 months
Ah
When you go to uni
As opposed to?
Original post by xobeauty
So you prefer no labels?
Labels like clothing labels?
Original post by toonervoustotalk
Ah
When you go to uni
When you go to uni
indeed
gonna go wild
Original post by CoolCavy
indeed
gonna go wild
gonna go wild
just stay away from me
will need to avoid temptationSo no guinea pigs and chill
Original post by Anonymous
Labels like clothing labels?
No. Like relationship labels.
Original post by whorace
Relationships may sound dumb but they feel great, at least some of the time anyway, seems quite sad to want to live alone for the rest of your life...
Whether or not its sad is purley down to your subjective viewpoint.
Being alone I am liberated from other people.
Original post by Anonymous
Whether or not its sad is purley down to your subjective viewpoint.
Being alone I am liberated from other people.
Being alone I am liberated from other people.
Yeah posting anon on an Internet forum you're really enjoying the isolation. Liberation comes from belonging in a community not hobbitism
Original post by toonervoustotalk just stay away from me will need to avoid temptation
So no guinea pigs and chill
just stay away from me will need to avoid temptationSo no guinea pigs and chill
Will be too busy with the rest of the sows if u catch my drift
you are more than welcome to come tho loooool
perhaps 
just want to get away from my boring pathetic existence tbh and actually do exciting things
Original post by whorace
Yeah posting anon on an Internet forum you're really enjoying the isolation. Liberation comes from belonging in a community not hobbitism
Yeah I am, I just get bored of conversing with myself but talking to others can have its enjoyment.
Relationships are still something I do not wish to burden myself with.
Original post by Anonymous
Yeah I am, I just get bored of conversing with myself but talking to others can have its enjoyment.
Relationships are still something I do not wish to burden myself with.
Relationships are still something I do not wish to burden myself with.
Have you ever been in one? The closeness can be a wonderful sensation, far greater than a simple friendship. It does have it's suffering, but suffering can bring out the best in some of us and launch us on new paths.
Original post by whorace
Have you ever been in one? The closeness can be a wonderful sensation, far greater than a simple friendship. It does have it's suffering, but suffering can bring out the best in some of us and launch us on new paths.
Nope and I do not plan in being in one.
Original post by Anonymous
Nope and I do not plan in being in one.
Why would you not even try it? You are young I presume, and on a student forum so likely somewhat educated. Why would you not even try be in a relationship to confirm your understanding? What do you have to lose.
Personally I think people who say this actually have low self esteem and use it as an excuse to cope with being lonely.
Original post by whorace
Why would you not even try it? You are young I presume, and on a student forum so likely somewhat educated. Why would you not even try be in a relationship to confirm your understanding? What do you have to lose.
Personally I think people who say this actually have low self esteem and use it as an excuse to cope with being lonely.
Personally I think people who say this actually have low self esteem and use it as an excuse to cope with being lonely.
It is because I am educated that I see relationships to be a waste of time that simply result in a negative outcome.
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