Do bad girls get the best guys?

I'm seriously done being the nice girl. All that happens is I get ignored or trampled on. Meanwhile the bad girls take home all at goodies. My crush started dating a girl who has already slept with 3 of our mutual friends, plus many many other guys. He completely friendzoned me and he really likes her. I'm at my wits end now!!! This is not the first time this has happened! :angry:

How do I become bad? Someone please help me kill the good girl inside me once and for all!

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Reply 1

toonervoustotalk

Why woulld you want to :s-smilie:

Be yourself :smile:

Someone will love you for being yourself :yep:

Reply 2

username1539513

Original post by Anonymous

How do I become bad? Someone please help me kill the good girl inside me once and for all!

Never change yourself for the sake of a man, honestly, where is the self esteem and respect of ladies nowadays?

Do you know what men think when they hear the term 'bad girl'?
Easy lay, quick shag, any variation of the above. They don't respect her for who she is; only what she has between her legs.

Sure you can change yourself, but those types of men aren't what you want. Anyone can roll in mud, but the only thing you'll attract is pigs

You do you and a man good for you will come along eventually, just be patient

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

It's not that simple though. My crush really likes her and has fallen for her despite the fact she's already been passed around our friends :frown:

I know lots of girls with similar behaviour who get really nice boyfriends. Meanwhile I'm a forever alone never had a bf.

Reply 4

Alexion

Would rep a thousand times :yep:

Reply 5

whorace

Bad girls get abused. That handsome devil she beds isn't stupid, he knows she can't be trusted which is why he beds her and marries someone more reliable.

Reply 6

Alexion

Original post by Anonymous

It's not that simple though. My crush really likes her and has fallen for her despite the fact she's already been passed around our friends :frown:

I know lots of girls with similar behaviour who get really nice boyfriends. Meanwhile I'm a forever alone never had a bf.

I doubt that's a 'bad girl' thing, likely just to do with confidence...

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

Original post by toonervoustotalk

Why woulld you want to :s-smilie:

Be yourself :smile:

Someone will love you for being yourself :yep:

I've never had a boyfriend or interest at all so whilst that sounds cute it's not true. Plus I feel like being good is not really who I am it is the role I play because I think it's right but it does me no favours anyway.

Reply 8

whorace

Original post by Alexion

I doubt that's a 'bad girl' thing, likely just to do with confidence...

It's definitely confidence and attraction, a hot shy girl will get hit on regardless by confident men, but if she is not forward about liking him back he will go for a quick lay elsewhere.

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

Original post by whorace

Bad girls get abused. That handsome devil she beds isn't stupid, he knows she can't be trusted which is why he beds her and marries someone more reliable.

Hmm but apparently he's absolutely besotted by her :frown:

It's not fair.

Reply 10

Alexion

Original post by whorace

It's definitely confidence and attraction, a hot shy girl will get hit on regardless by confident men, but if she is not forward about liking him back he will go for a quick lay elsewhere.

Exactly!

Reply 11

whorace

Original post by TheArtofProtest

Flew out of the window along with chivalry and public decency.

Two things that never really existed in any society. When were the public ever anything more than an unwashed mob? Even the aristocrats were a bunch of promiscious gambling whores.

Reply 12

username1539513

Original post by Anonymous

It's not that simple though. My crush really likes her and has fallen for her despite the fact she's already been passed around our friends :frown:

I know lots of girls with similar behaviour who get really nice boyfriends. Meanwhile I'm a forever alone never had a bf.

Then your crush is obviously not the type of guy you want to be with. I understand it can be frustrating when your feelings override your capacity to think rationally; but in life you don't always get what you want. Be you. Be bold and be proud to be yourself and Mr. Right will come

Reply 13

Anonymous #1

Original post by TheArtofProtest

Flew out of the window along with chivalry and public decency.

Well yeah that's kind of true. And it seems to me the more you drop your drawers the higher your chance of finding a boyfriend with the hookup culture and what not nowadays.

Reply 14

Proxenus

Original post by Anonymous

How do I become bad? Someone please help me kill the good girl inside me once and for all!

OK pm me good girl maybe I can solve your problem

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Reply 15

username1539513

Original post by TheArtofProtest

Flew out of the window along with chivalry and public decency.

A great loss indeed. Not that I'm blaming either women or men for it; I guess the current arrangement works better for men than for women though

Reply 16

whorace

Original post by Proxenus

OK pm me good girl maybe I can solve your problem

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Because what she really wants is a guy who drops his pants at an anonymous post on the Internet, because this is really trustworthy and more exciting than anything offered by being a whore in real life.