How to get over a girl?

What can I do? Nothing is helping? It's been almost 4 weeks since our friendship ended and I am not getting better. When will this misery stop? I've been to hospital, gp, I will go to counselling soon. I still don't think any of this will help.
I feel anxious and worried and upset and a million other emotions.
I will never see her again. This kills me

Nothing is helping cos you continue to do nothing to help yourself. We explicitly told you NOT to contact/approach this girl again and you've just done the polar opposite by trying to reason with her once more. You are point blank refusing to move on with your life despite the fact she has made it abundantly clear she wants nothing to do with you. And even worse, you are giving up on the idea of medical help already cos you are so fixed in your ways that the only thing to make this better is having her back in your life. With all this considered I think you are destined to feel miserable for the foreseeable future.

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Everyone just stop replying. Each time we reply it bumps it up to the top of the page when nothing any of us have said or will say will help him. After two years of posting on this goddamn site (along with several others), he needs to learn that posting here isn't helping him.

It was my last chance to see her and talk to her and I knew if I didn't try I would regret it later.
I know she wants nothing to do with me - this HURTS me and pains me.
I know for a fact if she did come back in my life, I would feel a million times better than I do right now. Fact. But that's not going to happen.
I don't want to be miserable anymore..it's ruining my life. I feel pain inside all the time. I feel helpless and empty. I really wish this did not happen.

Everyone just stop replying. Each time we reply it bumps it up to the top of the page when nothing any of us have said or will say will help him. After two years of posting on this goddamn site (along with several others), he needs to learn that posting here isn't helping him.

You don't know what this guys environment is like. he could be completely isolated and excluded from every group he was associated with or apart off. Not replying to his pleas for help in my book is therefore pretty mean. Try to empathise with him, and consider every predisposition he has had, that has lead him to where he is now. I know he pisses you off, but i believe everyone should have a helping hand. This is why this forum is so great. Oh yeah and you said that nothing we say and is saying or will say is helping him, clearly it is a he is seeking clinical help. Plus i'm different from you so i have a different perspective so don't assume what i say will not help him.

And don't tell people what to do.

Have you read all his previous threads on this girl? Georgia has been very helpful to him in those threads and the op has ignored her advice so it is frustrating. She is right there is nothing we can say to help him only he can plus he has received plenty of advice on this thread so don't know why it isn't closed.
He has plenty of friends who he chooses not to hang out with but are very supportive but he preferred the company of this girl instead.

You have probably built a dependency on this girl based around emotional attachment, Possibly love. She is not good for you, nor is she what you truly desire. You want the sense of her being around and you want mental and emotional equilibrium. You don't actually want her. That's why you are fighting for her so much. If you really cared for her, you would give her space, you would respect her and her wishes. You are selfish and are only looking out for yourself. You are even doing it the wrong way, by trying to get this drug, this obsession back into your life.

Don't go near this girl again. If you go near her you will keep falling. Each time you fall it gets harder to pick yourself up. It will get to the point where everyone has abandoned you and you can't pick yourself up any more. That's when you make bad decisions, you know what I'm talking about.

Don't tell me about your emotions, i already know how you feel. Just change. Make yourself a stronger man.

Have you read all his previous threads on this girl? Georgia has been very helpful to him in those threads and the op has ignored her advice so it is frustrating. She is right there is nothing we can say to help him only he can plus he has received plenty of advice on this thread so don't know why it isn't closed.
He has plenty of friends who he chooses not to hang out with but are very supportive but he preferred the company of this girl instead.

She has. She has been very nice and supportive. It's not that I have ignored the advice, sometimes I just cannot make myself to do it. For example, the chance of being with her or hanging out with her or talking with her, it's just too good to pass down.

The thing was, all the advice was pretty much stop being friends with this girl etc, and that was something I did not want to do. I wanted her in my life. Because now that she is not in my life, I feel 100 times worse than I did last month.

I do have friends, and do stay with them, but yeah I preferred the company of the girl. Because I LOVED being with her. Despite all this bad stuff, we had some pretty good memories and good times together.

God it kills me that this ended so badly.

Find another woman to fancy and you will quickly forget your friend it will work.

OK. When I feel ready to do that I will. Although I know I will just compare every girl with her. Gosh I put her on such a pedastal. But I lost myself loving her. It's like everything was connected to and through her. That wasn't healthy.

I will never get so close to a friend again (especially when unrequited feelings are involved).

I was a stupid kid 3 years ago I didn't know anything about girls.

I had to go through all of this and suffer and learn from it. I just wished it wasn't with her.

Even now, I think about her everyday and I miss her dearly.

She was really horrible to you i would NEVER speak to a friend the way she spoke to you even if they had feelings for me i would try and be polite but she didnt care for your feelings at all if you think of all her negative qualities you will get over her.

Have you read all his previous threads on this girl? Georgia has been very helpful to him in those threads and the op has ignored her advice so it is frustrating. She is right there is nothing we can say to help him only he can plus he has received plenty of advice on this thread so don't know why it isn't closed.
He has plenty of friends who he chooses not to hang out with but are very supportive but he preferred the company of this girl instead.

I was really missing her today so I looked at one of our pics together. And it just made me feel 100 times worse and it put tears in my eyes. I think I will just put these pictures somewhere where I cannot look at them easily. God it's killing me.

Why is this affecting me so much? I must be the worst case scenario on this earth.

I was really missing her today so I looked at one of our pics together. And it just made me feel 100 times worse and it put tears in my eyes. I think I will just put these pictures somewhere where I cannot look at them easily. God it's killing me.

Why is this affecting me so much? I must be the worst case scenario on this earth.