Very confused about a guy???? Help :(

Will he come back to repeat or will he not want a relationship cause a girl gave him sex too early ?

Not really. It's an additional way.. along with all the other flirting that has been occuring for months. how would you, show someone you're interested??

yeah thats true i need to be well basically from october-early january we were both very flirty with each other in class etc, but in like january/feb he started being off with me, and one day he didnt sit with me in my frees, so then i felt upset as he had done for weeks before, and he had blatantly seen me. he was basically trying to ignore me, but maybe he was trying to just ignore that fact that he liked me?? And then he kept sighing in class when he was near me? this may have just been a coincidence and i he think maybe he had other problems going on at this time.. but now he seems to be a bit back to his old self, and i did act like i was from oct-jan but in feb i was like why is he being like this with me, so i kinda thought everything was lost. But maybe not as hes starting asking me random questions like i said above like about our classroom and stuff when he knows the answer already? do you think thats a sign that he wants an excuse to talk to me?

i keep liking his things on social networks too so i hope he does get the message clearer now, but the problem is we're from different social worlds haha. hes like a really popular guy, really good looking. And i'm like no where near as popular as him, so maybe he doesn't wanna be seen with me? but he always tries to sit with me in class and helps me if im stuck on a question, and he spoke to me last week when his best friend, who is also very popular was there...

sorry for the massive para!

Maybe he was acting differently cause something is going on with him. If he likes you, he likes you, it doesn't matter how popular he is. I don't think liking things on social media is gonna help lol. You should talk to him in person alone, show interest in him and ask him out. You both like each other and you should go out. Guys love it when girls make the first move it relieves the tension off them. Does he act like the ways he acts with you with other girls?,

Yeah he obviously likes you loads but can't beat his nerves to ask you, I'd say you initiate if you like him, because if it's been a year then he's struggling.

Yeah you're right i think he must be, do you think hes lost interest in me by now if ive not initiated enough by now? but he keeps asking me questions about homework or which building we are in for class, when he already knows the answer...

Isnt that a sign that he wants a reason to talk to me?

Just talk to him already.


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yeah but i can't just randomly ask him out incase of rejection, maybe i should get closer with him before asking out

Honestly, I think he is head over heels for you.

get over it, if he says no go shag his friend

He's a vampire for sure!

why do you say that.. what do you mean by that?

It sounds like the guys shy and needs you to make the first move show him your interested, make conversation, it's really not that hard he obviously likes you and if you like him what is there to worry about?

Watch the start of twilight (although not a traditional one), jokes, he's just shy. Seems like he likes you, you have nothing to lose by showing how you feel and seeing if its reciprocated, if he is a decent enough guy and a valuable person in your life, just getting to know where you stand wont hurt your friendship (if that is all he is after)

i really hope so, do you think everything i've described are good signs? what would you do now? i find it hard to talk to him sometimes cause hes so awesome i just don't know how to make interesting convo haha