Men and women can be just as bad as each other. Plenty of relationships work out. For me personally I've chosen to stay alone unless someone somehow comes along who's special. Don't ever just blame women my ex bf I would have done anything for him, I forgave him so many times when I should have left and he destroyed me as a person and now I don't trust anyone or let anyone in. Abusive relationships are horrific and I've learnt it's allways the guys who preach that there the good guys there different they wouldn't hurt you. So don't tar one gender, when some guys will be abusive and cheat and no I didn't want his money I wanted some of his time is company, but he used me instead and admits it. I'll always love him thou and wish it hadn't been so bad