What are your thoughts?

I share most of my worries with my partner and then my family. I feel like my partner understands me more and has the same kind of views as me so it makes it feel easier to tell him stuff than anyone else. I don't tell friends as much as I tell my partner or family though tbh, I only have one or two close friends, everyone else is more of an acquaintance.

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Asolare

I did start sharing them with people a few months back, people I thought to be close friends, because I was struggling with a lot. But things turned pretty shitty with that and I decided not to bother sharing my inner thoughts with anyone for a while.

Best not to reveal how emotionally messed up I am inside haha :tongue:

Reply 4

whorace

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I have one very close friend who I have known for years and trust completely so I tell them stuff like that. Everyone else gets the hard face.

Reply 5

OP

Original post by Inexorably

I did start sharing them with people a few months back, people I thought to be close friends, because I was struggling with a lot. But things turned pretty shitty with that and I decided not to bother sharing my inner thoughts with anyone for a while.

Best not to reveal how emotionally messed up I am inside haha :tongue:

I wish there was some kind of way where you could talk to a complete stranger who could give you an advice without judging you.---You can share w// me. Don't take it serious unless you want to

Reply 6

thefatone

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keep, people don't want to know about my problems, why the f**k would they want to know? unless i'm going to therapy or something(i won't)

Reply 7

OP

Hope all of you who have replied would see my view. The reason I have raised that kind of an issue is when you are arguing with a person/ family they are starting to remember most of that "shitty" stuff that you have shared with them.
--- Would are your opinions?

Reply 8

StarsDestination

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Original post by shimmeringsofya

Do you prefer to share most of your thoughts w// friends and family or keep them to your heart? and the main question is WHY?

I write down my thoughts and put them in a sack with a snake, a chicken and a dog, and tie the sack. Then I throw the sack into a river and throw the river into space.

Reply 9

Asolare

Original post by shimmeringsofya

I wish there was some kind of way where you could talk to a complete stranger who could give you an advice without judging you.---You can share w// me. Don't take it serious unless you want to

There are sites for that - certain forums (even TSR) but there's also one called 7 cups of tea or something which is great for that.

Reply 10

OP

Original post by thefatone

keep, people don't want to know about my problems, why the f**k would they want to know? unless i'm going to therapy or something(i won't)

you are quite right, I think

Reply 11

OP

Original post by Inexorably

There are sites for that - certain forums (even TSR) but there's also one called 7 cups of tea or something which is great for that.

That was really helpful, thank you for your reply! I am still open for you :smile:

Reply 12

mkap

i dont really open up tp people but i would never open up to my family about all things but certain things i would tell my stepmum or brother. i have a few close friends where i could tell them anything.

Reply 13

thefatone

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Original post by shimmeringsofya

you are quite right, I think

Reply 14

whorace

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Original post by shimmeringsofya

Hope all of you who have replied would see my view. The reason I have raised that kind of an issue is when you are arguing with a person/ family they are starting to remember most of that "shitty" stuff that you have shared with them.
--- Would are your opinions?

I have high standards, the moment they use it against me they're gone.

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OP