Muslims help

just finish uni, it's only 2 years

I'm currently at uni but I cba with it anymore

The workload is too much and I can see myself failing

I also have a part time job and I cba with it either as the hours and travel are long and tiring

I prefer to stay at home. I love cooking and making different things but most of the time I'm told to leave cooking by my mum to go and revise.

I can't see myself getting a decent job in the future so what's the point? I've told my mum but she refuses to listen as she has different expectations

I know I'm supposed to listen to her in Islam, but I can't see myself doing another two years of uni and succeeding

What does Islam say about this? What's the best thing to do?

I would've posted on isoc but wanted to post anon

Islamically as a girl you have to be provided for. When you get married it is the duty of your husband to provide for you, you don't have to contribute a penny. But, knowledge is a virtue to success and will be good. Why not join a cooking society? Balance your life. I know it's hard but you've only 2 more years.

What do you study in uni if I may ask?

THANK YOU
I tried explaining this to my mum, how I don't need to work, it's better for women to stay at home etc. but she said you have to work and be independent and I'm just like no What's the point in working, all that changes when you have kids

I've already done a levels that's enough knowledge for me lol
It's not about a cooking society, it's the fact I'm on a degree I don't enjoy, but if I HAD to pick a degree it'd be this one

I'd rather not say but it's science based

Salaam

If you seriously feel that you can't keep up with it then you should speak to your mum. Tell her slowly how hard it is and the things you want.

First thing you need to do when faced with a problem is to tell Allah, pray tahajjud and make dua to Allah. Tell him your problems and ask for a solution. Just doing that and having full reliance on him will ease your situation greatly.

In terms of practical steps you just have to convince your mum gradually, she'll understand inshaAllah.

You said you prefer to stay at home, so think of your future, what you want for self. Maybe you could study the deen or something.

Ultimately the decision is yours and no one knows your situation properly except Allah. All you have to do is make sincere dua to him.

Don't make any rash decisions too.

Hope it works out.

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Damn, would you look at that. Its usually the opposite way round.

its only two years. if the past two years went past so quickly surly the next two years would go by fast and you would not even notice it ( hope that helps if you think of it that way lol) think about it in the long run , you would have a decent job ,earn decent money, have a nice house and you will think back and think "you know those two years were so worth it, i was struggling so much but it paid of" but at the end of the day it's is up to you. don't do something you would regret sis. i will keep you in my prayers and hopefully everything would go well




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Wtf has islam got to do with finishing your degree. Forget about what an outdated book tells you and do what you feel is best.

Yeah it is but I'm not like other girls
I don't believe it all that

Yeah not funny

I clearly asked for islamic advice, please go spread your hate elsewhere.
I will do what I feel is best according to that outdated book

Wasalaam

I would feel I'm letting my mum and family down. It would be embarrassing for her to tell others her daughter dropped out of university.

How do you pray tahajud? I was thinking of praying istikarah soon.

I would love to study Islam more. I get so annoyed when I hear all these amazing islamic events on the weekends but I can't go to them coz I'm working. I wish I could swap my uni degree for an Islamic one but it's too late now

JazakAllah for the advice.