His house is really messy, what should I do?

I promise I'm not a troll. Cleanliness is very important to me.

Options

1. Dump.
2 talk to him and get a compromise

Its worth talking imo, but dont sleep with him till youve had the talk and got a compromise you find accpetable.

Burping and farting he can stop quickly.
Being unridy would take willing on his part and much harder to change. Suggestuin above of no oing round to his place or suggesting tidyness is reallt importnat to you and see how he reacts. If everything else was good, then you could do a lot worse imo.

If I met a person for the first time and they burped & farted in front of me, I would lose interest immediately lol. 100 to 0.

It's not about them feeling comfortable in front of me. It's about how they conduct themselves and if they behave like a slob, sitting around farting then...no. lol.

Tidy up for him wear that maids outfit you've been saving for just the proper occasion.

Lol I would be more likely to wear my maid outside for him as a reward for cleaning up, not the opposite.

Lol I would be more likely to wear my maid outside for him as a reward for cleaning up, not the opposite.

I know what you mean; he is very sweet and I enjoy his company a lot. I just hope I can get him to see that things would be so much better if he cleaned his house. I feel like just arranging to meet him outside next time but he'll probably expect me to stay for longer than a day.

Lol I would be more likely to wear my maid outside for him as a reward for cleaning up, not the opposite.

Sorry my posts keep coming top anonymous What I was going to say was well couldn't you just give him one lesson first in your french maids uniform? Or does that cum after he's tidied up as well? If it was me I might be persuaded to tidy up. Depends....

I don't know why my auto-correct changed "outfit" to "outside" :P

I could give him a little tease but don't want to lead him on too much. This is in case he refuses to make a compromise and things don't work out.

I don't know why my auto-correct changed "outfit" to "outside" :P

I could give him a little tease but don't want to lead him on too much. This is in case he refuses to make a compromise and things don't work out.

lol message me.. maybe we can meet and you can show me lol

So what have you decided to do about your new acquaintance?

I won't be seeing him again until next week. Will drop a few hints when I call him tonight but if the house is still like that when I visit then I will have to be upfront about how much it bothers me. It's a little early to tell how things will go.

Be careful you don't hurt his feelings.

If I met a person for the first time and they burped & farted in front of me, I would lose interest immediately lol. 100 to 0.

It's not about them feeling comfortable in front of me. It's about how they conduct themselves and if they behave like a slob, sitting around farting then...no. lol.

Options

1. Dump.
2 talk to him and get a compromise

Its worth talking imo, but dont sleep with him till youve had the talk and got a compromise you find accpetable.

Burping and farting he can stop quickly.
Being unridy would take willing on his part and much harder to change. Suggestuin above of no oing round to his place or suggesting tidyness is reallt importnat to you and see how he reacts. If everything else was good, then you could do a lot worse imo.

Really? I'd find it quite endearing that they're comfortable enough with themselves to be that open with me.



Compromise? Lulz, it's his house, what right does someone else have telling him how to live? If they lived together then sure... but they don't.

OP (and everyone else who obviously isn't ready for engaging in a mature relationship): people fart. It's a thing. Sometimes they're smelly, sometimes they're loud, but they're always funny (unless they meet the definition of a surprise, ie; a fart with lumps. In which case, it can either cease to be funny or be the funniest story you will ever tell anyone ever, depending on the circumstances).

We don't live in an era where people should feel ashamed for popping one off in front of their partner, therefore it's pretty much a non-issue. If you can't accept that, and want someone to leave the room whenever they need to engage in natural bodily functions (within the context, people. I'm not suggesting him dropping a steaming pile on the coffee table wouldn't be an issue), then good luck getting your partner to take you seriously.

Really? I'd find it quite endearing that they're comfortable enough with themselves to be that open with me.

Compromise? Lulz, it's his house, what right does someone else have telling him how to live? If they lived together then sure... but they don't.

OP (and everyone else who obviously isn't ready for engaging in a mature relationship): people fart. It's a thing. Sometimes they're smelly, sometimes they're loud, but they're always funny (unless they meet the definition of a surprise, ie; a fart with lumps. In which case, it can either cease to be funny or be the funniest story you will ever tell anyone ever, depending on the circumstances).

We don't live in an era where people should feel ashamed for popping one off in front of their partner, therefore it's pretty much a non-issue. If you can't accept that, and want someone to leave the room whenever they need to engage in natural bodily functions (within the context, people. I'm not suggesting him dropping a steaming pile on the coffee table wouldn't be an issue), then good luck getting your partner to take you seriously.