This was a problem I had with my ex gf which I never understood.
We'd have foreplay in bed and id either not be able to get it up, or not be able to sustain it. Instead of comforting me or go to sleep giving me a reassuring cuddle, she'd turn on her side facing away, in a mood, and give me the silent treatment all night.
I told her how **** that made me feel but she'd do it again and again. It was like she wanted to get revenge - like she was trying to punish me for something which i had no control over and which already made me feel ****.
Any experience with this on either side? Was she justified acting this way, because it felt spiteful and inconsiderate from my point of view