First time, I just couldn't get it up

OP

stop idealising her as perfect. This might be giving you anxiety. You are good enough for her, that's why you have her. Not being terrified of screwing things up might help the cock do its thing, and make sure you don't fall into the trap of being needy, on a more general note/.

Thanks for the advice

Easier said than done though. Life affects you, it affects your confidence. Mine is pretty low. And the fact that I've never had any luck with girls, it doesn't help. I don't look really good. She's the opposite of all that.

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Anonymous #1

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Original post by Virgili

Ok here's what you do, foreplay kiss her neck and put your finger in and then get her to put the condom on you while she's blowing you, grab her hair while she's doing it and then bite her lip, then throw her back onto the bed and put it in.

That's exactly what I did!

I asked her to put the condom on she said "no I'd rather have you do it". Okay... Then I asked her if I could have a BJ to try to get it up again (that was the last thing to try) and she said not the first time with a guy. Hmmmm...

Reply 22

Virgili

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Original post by Anonymous

That's exactly what I did!

I asked her to put the condom on she said "no I'd rather have you do it". Okay... Then I asked her if I could have a BJ to try to get it up again (that was the last thing to try) and she said not the first time with a guy. Hmmmm...

Sounds like she's neither as experienced or confident as she makes out.

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Oh Baby

Original post by Anonymous

That's exactly what I did!

I asked her to put the condom on she said "no I'd rather have you do it". Okay... Then I asked her if I could have a BJ to try to get it up again (that was the last thing to try) and she said not the first time with a guy. Hmmmm...

she sounds like a crap lay and basic bitch, I'd dump her and find a better girl

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Virgili

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Original post by Oh Baby

she sounds like a crap lay and basic bitch, I'd dump her and find a better girl

Guys a virgin can't be too picky. I say make all the mistakes you want with this one and the next girl that comes along then you won't have this problem. Just don't fall for her.

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Oh Baby

Original post by Virgili

Guys a virgin can't be too picky. I say make all the mistakes you want with this one and the next girl that comes along then you won't have this problem. Just don't fall for her.

yeah I guess, but she doesn't sound like long term relationship material

Reply 26

Anonymous #1

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Too late I think. Yeah it's not like I can have another one lol even if I wanted to. I've been single all my life. Once in my life a girl loves me and wants to have sex with me, plus she looks great, That's a great opportunity

Reply 27

samina_ay

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So this post is about a lost condom..... omg

Could have just turned the light on and found it? Don't think it could have slithered out of the room loool

Reply 28

Betelgeuse-

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Anxiety leads to floppy little sausage. Calm down relax start breathing

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RugbyFighter

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Viagra.... Has no one mentioned this yet ?

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Thomb

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Original post by samina_ay

So this post is about a lost condom..... omg

Could have just turned the light on and found it? Don't think it could have slithered out of the room loool

I can imagine it did :colondollar:

Reply 31

Anonymous #1

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Original post by samina_ay

So this post is about a lost condom..... omg

Could have just turned the light on and found it? Don't think it could have slithered out of the room loool