He called me sweet, am I friendzoned?
My closest guy friend has been staying round my house more frequently (mainly when we get drunk). We end up cuddling all night/the next day (didn't get out of bed till 5pm today). I got a vibe that he was into me, and I am to him.
I was lying in bed cuddling him today, stroking his arm and nestling my head in his neck like we've done before, and then he called me 'sweet'... He never has before. To me its kind of a weird word to use when someone is in that position with you. I read that means he's trying to friendzone me, or I dunno whether it's cos I had hiccups that was calling me sweet as in cute or something. I dunno.
What do you think?
I was lying in bed cuddling him today, stroking his arm and nestling my head in his neck like we've done before, and then he called me 'sweet'... He never has before. To me its kind of a weird word to use when someone is in that position with you. I read that means he's trying to friendzone me, or I dunno whether it's cos I had hiccups that was calling me sweet as in cute or something. I dunno.
What do you think?
Sweet doesn't necessarily mean friendzone lol
He probably likes you idk
He probably likes you idk
This is a death sentence for men, not women.
You're fine. Keep at it!
You're fine. Keep at it!
Original post by elliebrown92
My closest guy friend has been staying round my house more frequently (mainly when we get drunk). We end up cuddling all night/the next day (didn't get out of bed till 5pm today). I got a vibe that he was into me, and I am to him.
I was lying in bed cuddling him today, stroking his arm and nestling my head in his neck like we've done before, and then he called me 'sweet'... He never has before. To me its kind of a weird word to use when someone is in that position with you. I read that means he's trying to friendzone me, or I dunno whether it's cos I had hiccups that was calling me sweet as in cute or something. I dunno.
What do you think?
I was lying in bed cuddling him today, stroking his arm and nestling my head in his neck like we've done before, and then he called me 'sweet'... He never has before. To me its kind of a weird word to use when someone is in that position with you. I read that means he's trying to friendzone me, or I dunno whether it's cos I had hiccups that was calling me sweet as in cute or something. I dunno.
What do you think?
you're too sugary?
Men don't friendzone women. Their brains are simple, women go it to one of two categories;
Would.
Would not.
I can only guess that you are on the "would" box but he has not made his feelings clear, which leaves it to you to make your feelings clear. There is always the possibility that he might be gay.
Would.
Would not.
I can only guess that you are on the "would" box but he has not made his feelings clear, which leaves it to you to make your feelings clear. There is always the possibility that he might be gay.
Original post by Abolisher
He might be gay.
Why has he not tried to bang you yet OP this guys onto something
Original post by Virgili
Why has he not tried to bang you yet OP this guys onto something
He's definitely not gay, he's tried making moves but it's difficult because we've been best friends for 4 years and work together, so I dunno if him calling me sweet was him trying to put an end to things before they go too far
(edited 8 years ago)
Original post by elliebrown92
He's definitely not gay, he's tried making moves but it's difficult because we've been best friends for 4 years and work together, so I dunno if him calling me sweet was him trying to put an end to things before they go too far
Just put your head on his crotch and start biting. If you want things to happen, make them happen.
Original post by elliebrown92
He's definitely not gay, he's tried making moves but it's difficult because we've been best friends for 4 years and work together, so I dunno if him calling me sweet was him trying to put an end to things before they go too far
Do you want things to go further?
Original post by DiddyDec
Do you want things to go further?
I'm in two minds. When I first met him 4 years ago I was really into him, attracted to him loads but I had a boyfriend/he had a girlfriend at the time so nothing happened. Then we started working together and I kind of suppressed any feelings towards him other than being friends. Then he started gradually giving me an impression a few months ago that he was into me and it brought back all those old feelings, and I like him now as more than friends. But don't want to **** where I eat/ruin the friendship we have...
One of my friends had a one night stand with him ages ago and said he's amazing in bed so obviously that is in the back of my mind too.
He kept getting a hard on today when we were in bed and saying it was my fault, in a jokey way. Then he called me sweet, and got up. Before he left he said 'this is starting to be a problem now.' Hence, why I think he might be trying to suppress any feelings towards me and friendzone me
(edited 8 years ago)
Original post by elliebrown92
I'm in two minds. When I first met him 4 years ago I was really into him, attracted to him loads but I had a boyfriend/he had a girlfriend at the time so nothing happened. Then we started working together and I kind of suppressed any feelings towards him other than being friends. Then he started gradually giving me an impression a few months ago that he was into me and it brought back all those old feelings, and I like him now as more than friends. But don't want to **** where I eat/ruin the friendship we have...
One of my friends had a one night stand with him ages ago and said he's amazing in bed so obviously that is in the back of my mind too.
He kept getting a hard on today when we were in bed and saying it was my fault, in a jokey way. Then he called me sweet, and got up. Before he left he said 'this is starting to be a problem now.' Hence, why I think he might be trying to suppress any feelings towards me and friendzone me
One of my friends had a one night stand with him ages ago and said he's amazing in bed so obviously that is in the back of my mind too.
He kept getting a hard on today when we were in bed and saying it was my fault, in a jokey way. Then he called me sweet, and got up. Before he left he said 'this is starting to be a problem now.' Hence, why I think he might be trying to suppress any feelings towards me and friendzone me
Clearly he has feeling for you also. I think it is time to have a frank an open conversation. Is currently single?
Original post by DiddyDec
Clearly he has feeling for you also. I think it is time to have a frank an open conversation. Is currently single?
I think you're right. Going to be the most awkward conversation ever haha. We're both single yeh
Original post by elliebrown92
I think you're right. Going to be the most awkward conversation ever haha. We're both single yeh
Just do it, I'm sure you both know that you already have feelings for each other.
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